Hello Everybody, I am just lost and need some advice.
So I dated my best friend for about a year, then we ended up breaking up. This was when we were like 14-15 though, so i'm not sure it really counted. Fast forward to this past november (We're both 17) when I asked her out again.
We've been dating for about 3 months and we've had a great time. We have made out, and the last time we did i put my hand on her boob (over her shirt), but she told me she didn't like it so i didn't do it again.
Now she just called me and told me that she was asexual, and explained that she loves me romantically but has no desire ever for anything sexual.
I don't know what to do because I really do love her so much. We've been close since we were 5. I want to just keep dating her, but I also know that I'll always have sexual urges and desires that she will never be able to satisfy. If she doesn't like anything sexual, then we are just really close fiends basically, but that would be completely ok with me I just want to stay at least good friends with her. I just don't know what to say to her or how to proceed. I would never make her do anything she doesn't want to.
Help?!!!
So I dated my best friend for about a year, then we ended up breaking up. This was when we were like 14-15 though, so i'm not sure it really counted. Fast forward to this past november (We're both 17) when I asked her out again.
We've been dating for about 3 months and we've had a great time. We have made out, and the last time we did i put my hand on her boob (over her shirt), but she told me she didn't like it so i didn't do it again.
Now she just called me and told me that she was asexual, and explained that she loves me romantically but has no desire ever for anything sexual.
I don't know what to do because I really do love her so much. We've been close since we were 5. I want to just keep dating her, but I also know that I'll always have sexual urges and desires that she will never be able to satisfy. If she doesn't like anything sexual, then we are just really close fiends basically, but that would be completely ok with me I just want to stay at least good friends with her. I just don't know what to say to her or how to proceed. I would never make her do anything she doesn't want to.
Help?!!!