Groped / Rubbed against?

    • Sometimes it happens when it's very crowded (like when riding a bus or subway and I have to stand). Last year some guy was standing really close behind me and he was kind of grinding against my ass. I hated it and felt really embarrassed, but was too afraid to say anything.
    • Pamela wrote:

      Sometimes it happens when it's very crowded (like when riding a bus or subway and I have to stand). Last year some guy was standing really close behind me and he was kind of grinding against my ass. I hated it and felt really embarrassed, but was too afraid to say anything.
      that’s horrible I hate that
      Feeling trapped and their hands touching you in places is really bad too or holding you against it and grinding like happened to you... I could hardly breathe it’s scary
    • AngelEmily wrote:

      Sometimes when its crowded in a bus etc. I feel a hand on my ass briefly but I cant even tell who it was so there is nothing I can do anyway. And when somebody keeps groping me im too shy to say anything unfortunately...
      I know what you mean I’m way to scared to say anything
      I know I’m not the only one of my friends who got fingered and grinded on
    • it's so fucked that people do this shit. I have sisters, and one time when this happened to my sister who was 12 at the time on the bus, our big sister saw and immediately slapped the guy in the face. She was such a badass that day.
      What I want to ask you ladies is if this happened to you and another uninvolved guy saw it happen, what's something he can do to help you or maybe fix the situation? My instinct would be to put some extra bass in my voice and yell at the assaulter immediately, or even just go up and hit him, especially when it's happening to such young girls, it's even more infuriating. But sometimes making a big scene makes the girl who just got assaulted even more embarrassed and upset. Is it worth the risk of embarrassing the victim to call out the predator? I don't think I could just "mind my own business" if I saw a grown ass man try to rub his dick up against a 10 year old
    • Usually the best thing is to draw attention but not involve her directly

      I heard of a guy seeing this, and held his phone up and started filming or pretending too and loud enough to be heard talked like he was live streaming and was like “hey everyone I haven’t seen this live before but this old guy is totally trying to dry hump this girl on the train” etc and the guy moved away and sprinted off at the next stop