The fact remains that the statement "all boys watch porn" was made and even though it may be difficult to find a boy who doesn't watch/isn't interested in porn, I'm sure there are some boys on the planet who don't (though I could be wrong). The point is, we don't know all boys. Therefore, we cannot make a statement as if it's a fact when we don't know whether it is or not.
Fun fact: a lot of girls aren't interested in boys who watch porn because boys (and men) who do are often more likely to cheat on their wives/girlfriends. If you're in a relationship with someone who also watches porn, chances are they're not satisfied with just you. And what happens if you can't satisfy them for some reason - for example, if you have to cancel a date? Maybe they'll wait. Maybe they'll just watch porn instead. Or maybe they'll find someone else who'll satisfy their needs when just watching porn can't.
Which leads us into the subject of cheating. Whether we think watching porn is considered cheating or not, if you ever find someone whom you love with all your heart and you want to be exclusive with this person - maybe even spend the rest of your life with her - and you find out she watches gay porn (for example), ask yourself would it bother you/would you feel she was being faithful to you. All the guys I know would think they were being cheated on.
There are a lot of guys who don't even like it when their wife/girlfriend just smiles at/is friendly with a guy. They sure wouldn't like it if she was getting sexually aroused by what she was looking at.
There are a lot of guys who don't even like it when their significant other "likes" someone's pictures on social media. I know there's a real live person on the other end of that picture but what's to stop their significant other from contacting the model agency/casting company/the actor himself who starred in the gay porn flick and saying: "Oh, how about we recreate my favorite scene, you know, the one where you..." I don't know of too many guys who would be okay with that.
You can tell by the look on a guy's face when he watches a video (with his wife/girlfriend and there's a scene where you can see the guy's penis), that he's uncomfortable - especially when he realizes the video has her undivided attention (the way a guy acts when he's watching porn).
If a guy watches porn and isn't sexually active with his significant other yet, there may also be a greater chance of him cheating on her. There comes a time when watching porn isn't enough for some people - it doesn't satisfy the same as having a real live person. (It's like if you watch pictures of cakes/pastries. Eventually you'll probably wanna go out a buy one. Watching leaves you hungry, leaves you wanting more. Why do you think there are pizza commercials on TV around the dinner hour!)
And even if you're not in a relationship - the next time you watch porn, keep in mind that the person/people you're jerkin' off to are possibly posing/acting under duress. They often do it because they have to, because they don't want to get further beaten/raped by their pimp/handler. Why do you think so many nudes/semi-nude pics don't show the person's face! Because that way, you don't see their tears, the anguish in their faces - especially young girls who haven't had enough acting experience yet to look like they're enjoying it. But people who watch porn often aren't interested in the fact that they're watching a human being - they're just interested in what's below the neck.
I was responding to 12yearoldmess' post where she said she's in a relationship.
Also, if a situation is not unusual (in other words, if it's commonplace), it doesn't necessarily mean that it's not a cause for concern.
And now I think I've spent enough time on this thread. I don't have time to continue debating so I'll "unwatch" it. For those who like to debate, I suggest finding someone who also likes to debate and you can both do so 'til the "cows come home".
Fun fact: a lot of girls aren't interested in boys who watch porn because boys (and men) who do are often more likely to cheat on their wives/girlfriends. If you're in a relationship with someone who also watches porn, chances are they're not satisfied with just you. And what happens if you can't satisfy them for some reason - for example, if you have to cancel a date? Maybe they'll wait. Maybe they'll just watch porn instead. Or maybe they'll find someone else who'll satisfy their needs when just watching porn can't.
Which leads us into the subject of cheating. Whether we think watching porn is considered cheating or not, if you ever find someone whom you love with all your heart and you want to be exclusive with this person - maybe even spend the rest of your life with her - and you find out she watches gay porn (for example), ask yourself would it bother you/would you feel she was being faithful to you. All the guys I know would think they were being cheated on.
There are a lot of guys who don't even like it when their wife/girlfriend just smiles at/is friendly with a guy. They sure wouldn't like it if she was getting sexually aroused by what she was looking at.
There are a lot of guys who don't even like it when their significant other "likes" someone's pictures on social media. I know there's a real live person on the other end of that picture but what's to stop their significant other from contacting the model agency/casting company/the actor himself who starred in the gay porn flick and saying: "Oh, how about we recreate my favorite scene, you know, the one where you..." I don't know of too many guys who would be okay with that.
You can tell by the look on a guy's face when he watches a video (with his wife/girlfriend and there's a scene where you can see the guy's penis), that he's uncomfortable - especially when he realizes the video has her undivided attention (the way a guy acts when he's watching porn).
If a guy watches porn and isn't sexually active with his significant other yet, there may also be a greater chance of him cheating on her. There comes a time when watching porn isn't enough for some people - it doesn't satisfy the same as having a real live person. (It's like if you watch pictures of cakes/pastries. Eventually you'll probably wanna go out a buy one. Watching leaves you hungry, leaves you wanting more. Why do you think there are pizza commercials on TV around the dinner hour!)
And even if you're not in a relationship - the next time you watch porn, keep in mind that the person/people you're jerkin' off to are possibly posing/acting under duress. They often do it because they have to, because they don't want to get further beaten/raped by their pimp/handler. Why do you think so many nudes/semi-nude pics don't show the person's face! Because that way, you don't see their tears, the anguish in their faces - especially young girls who haven't had enough acting experience yet to look like they're enjoying it. But people who watch porn often aren't interested in the fact that they're watching a human being - they're just interested in what's below the neck.
I was responding to 12yearoldmess' post where she said she's in a relationship.
Also, if a situation is not unusual (in other words, if it's commonplace), it doesn't necessarily mean that it's not a cause for concern.
And now I think I've spent enough time on this thread. I don't have time to continue debating so I'll "unwatch" it. For those who like to debate, I suggest finding someone who also likes to debate and you can both do so 'til the "cows come home".