He sounds a bit like a dick that doesn't care enough about your feelings. At the same time I think you seem a bit needy. I think you need to cool it. You don't need him. You don't have to rely on them. Being in a relationship doesn't mean that you have to always be with that other person and that they have to respond to you whenever. You should be able to live your life without calling someone every day. If you're scared of voicing your opinion to him or explaining how you feel and what you want, then either things aren't going to get better (he's not going to magically change for no reason) or he's mean enough to make you feel like that - in which case, you should break up with him.
What's up, my dudes?