If I'm a "normal" man, can one day be gay?
If I'm a "normal" man, can one day be gay?
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kumalasari wrote:
If I'm a "normal" man, can one day be gay?
Do you mean does a man suddenly change from straight to gay? If so I don't think that happens. Fritz Kleinb, author of the book "The Bisexual Option" reckons peoples orientation can change over time. Bear in mind people's sexual orientation varies over a whole spectrum - check out tThe Kinsey Scale. So I think when someone's attraction is exclusively to one sex, i.e..they are at the extremes of the scale then probably nothing changes over time. But when someone has some degree of attraction to both sexes then that attraction can be selectively expressed or repressed over time.
So, for example, someone who was "mostly straight", i.e. a Kinsey 1 might do some teenage experimentation with another guy or guys but then only have sex with women for the next 20 years or more and not feel like their is anything missing but then find his wife is at the menopause and losing interest in sex and find that having a man on the side is much less complicated than having a woman on the side.
Then anyone who is not at the extremes of the scale can persue sex and relationships mostly with one sex and yet have an occasional flingf with the other sex. -
I read somewhere once that as men get older many become attracted to younger guys Ie teen boys,
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darmcc wrote:
I read somewhere once that as men get older many become attracted to younger guys Ie teen boys,
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I don’t understand the question either. But being gay is perfectly normal
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well i not sure, but i think most guys would do stuff with another guy if he knew no one would find out.
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If you meet the right guy sure
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If you are really free in mind and just look fir at person and not the body - why not
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if depends how do you you take the things...
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!2020! wrote:
you can become a fag at any time. you become a fag...you are not born that way...so you can give your ass at any time you want
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!2020! wrote:
rodrigo05 wrote:
!2020! wrote:
you can become a fag at any time. you become a fag...you are not born that way...so you can give your ass at any time you want
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rodrigo05 wrote:
!2020! wrote:
rodrigo05 wrote:
!2020! wrote:
you can become a fag at any time. you become a fag...you are not born that way...so you can give your ass at any time you want
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!2020! wrote:
rodrigo05 wrote:
!2020! wrote:
rodrigo05 wrote:
!2020! wrote:
you can become a fag at any time. you become a fag...you are not born that way...so you can give your ass at any time you want
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No, a large part of homosexuality is caused by genetics
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heddaa wrote:
!2020! wrote:
rodrigo05 wrote:
!2020! wrote:
rodrigo05 wrote:
!2020! wrote:
you can become a fag at any time. you become a fag...you are not born that way...so you can give your ass at any time you want
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Sure, anyone can change if they meet the right person
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I think it's a waste of time to think about it. At school we had a discussion about it. There were some who said people choose to be gay, others said you are born that way, etc. I got to a point to find these discussions more and more boring. If everyone would just accept that there are people who are more interested in their own gender, then there would be no such discussions. Only one thing would be even better, namely if no one would waste a single thought on such a thing.
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