Soooo like I have been with boys on and of from my young teens, When I got with them it was merely down to peer pressure (which yes I know is wrong ) or because I felt that I should be even though I have never felt what I think is attraction towards a dude. Recently I tried to become sexually active with a boy and to my realisation I was unable to get wet for him until I started to imagine a “close girl friend” which helped a little. I tried to deny I’m attracted to girls even though I mastrubate to them ( I know stupid ) and convinced my self it’s a fetish. So now I’m like is it a fetish have I just convinced myself I like girls. I feel guilt when I mastrubate to girls so I try not to. So like am I just totally delusional and I am actually bi or lesbian I’m so confused anyone have any advice
Complete confusion
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Just accept who you are. Nothing wrong with liking girls and not liking boys. Maybe try and get with some girls.
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FKKGirl wrote:
Maybe try and get with some girls.
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Lol
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We are in a mostly heterosexual biased society, so we try to fit into it, however, if you are honestly not excited, turned on emotionally or physically when you're with guys, maybe it is that you are attracted to girls. I can only imagine that it is scary to worry about being judged for wanting to be with a girl, my advice is to try it out and see if that makes you happy.
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But we all are to 100 percent human.
This whole thing with this gender-focusation on the diverity of sexual identities and orientations gets more and more confusing. Seen this as a problem could be mitigated to a large extent by simply raise children to what they actually are, just humans. And if you then take any kind of sexual identity and orientation as given, there is no longer the stress of necessarily having to label yourself in this regard. -
Honestly, don't put any pressure on yourself. Just do what makes you happy and see where you end up, no matter i that makes you a lesbian, bi or an Emperor Penguin
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Not to be ashamed of revealing our inner desire or feeling ..If you are having some fetish feeling with girls..follow that way of life...what is wrong with it? my cousin sister has a wide friends' circle of girls..many of them are bihi friends, send me PM for anything else..I love to receive more messages ...thanks
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Let go young padawan.. let the force flow through you. Go with the flow. Dont try and be someone you are not. Always do you.
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