Hi, I just made an account because I'm hoping someone can give me some advice here.
I'm in high school and I was friends with this guy. He seemed nice, we never really hung out, but we would talk when we saw each other. I asked for his number so we could talk more because we didn't have classes together and there wasn't much time to talk at school and we didn't see each other anywhere else. I think guys and girls can be friends and text without it being weird so I didn't think much of it. We started texting and he asked me to hang out after school. I said yes because I thought we were friends. (to be honest I was slightly attracted to him but I didn't really want to be more than friends) we hung out and he asked me out, and I said yes even though I originally only wanted to be friends. Immediately (I'm not joking it was less than a minute) after I said yes he put his arm around me which made me a little uncomfortable because I thought it was a bit soon but I didn't do anything about it. (and just so you know we had probably been hanging out for 10-15 minutes) We made small talk for about 2-3 minutes (again, I'm not exaggerating) and then he asked if he could kiss me. I said no. He said that was okay and didn't ask again but I thought he seemed a little disappointed. a little while later he held my hand and kind of rested his hand and mine on my upper thigh. He didn't do anything else but it kind of felt like he was trying to get closer to touching me in other places. Nothing else happened after that and we just hung out for a little while longer.
Now I'm wondering if he only thinks I'll have sex with him or if he genuinely likes me. Is this normal behavior for teen guys?
I think it would have been better for him to ask me out after we had hung out and then put his arm around me etc. on an actual date because we definitely weren't that close, and we were supposed to be just friends although he didn't specify if it was a date or not.
Also, all of this was about one month after he had broken up with his girlfriend of six months, and I know that the two of them did not kiss or anything at all, which makes me wonder if that's why he broke up with her. He started talking to me right after he broke up with her which could mean that he just wanted to find someone else as soon as possible.
This happened recently and I'm trying to figure out what his intentions are before I hang out/go on a date with him again because if he's just using me I don't want to be in this relationship.
Sorry for writing a novel but I wanted to explain this, and I would appreciate your opinions.
Thanks!
I'm in high school and I was friends with this guy. He seemed nice, we never really hung out, but we would talk when we saw each other. I asked for his number so we could talk more because we didn't have classes together and there wasn't much time to talk at school and we didn't see each other anywhere else. I think guys and girls can be friends and text without it being weird so I didn't think much of it. We started texting and he asked me to hang out after school. I said yes because I thought we were friends. (to be honest I was slightly attracted to him but I didn't really want to be more than friends) we hung out and he asked me out, and I said yes even though I originally only wanted to be friends. Immediately (I'm not joking it was less than a minute) after I said yes he put his arm around me which made me a little uncomfortable because I thought it was a bit soon but I didn't do anything about it. (and just so you know we had probably been hanging out for 10-15 minutes) We made small talk for about 2-3 minutes (again, I'm not exaggerating) and then he asked if he could kiss me. I said no. He said that was okay and didn't ask again but I thought he seemed a little disappointed. a little while later he held my hand and kind of rested his hand and mine on my upper thigh. He didn't do anything else but it kind of felt like he was trying to get closer to touching me in other places. Nothing else happened after that and we just hung out for a little while longer.
Now I'm wondering if he only thinks I'll have sex with him or if he genuinely likes me. Is this normal behavior for teen guys?
I think it would have been better for him to ask me out after we had hung out and then put his arm around me etc. on an actual date because we definitely weren't that close, and we were supposed to be just friends although he didn't specify if it was a date or not.
Also, all of this was about one month after he had broken up with his girlfriend of six months, and I know that the two of them did not kiss or anything at all, which makes me wonder if that's why he broke up with her. He started talking to me right after he broke up with her which could mean that he just wanted to find someone else as soon as possible.
This happened recently and I'm trying to figure out what his intentions are before I hang out/go on a date with him again because if he's just using me I don't want to be in this relationship.
Sorry for writing a novel but I wanted to explain this, and I would appreciate your opinions.
Thanks!