For me would be her smile, and like a awesome sense of humor and is pretty chill and fun to hang with. And if she likes doing the same stuff I like, bonus. Bootie and boots are w/e, it's the whole person that makes the package.
Messy hair
Nothing gross but outdoorsy camping scruffy hair
Guys with super neat or gelled hair when camping etc… just seems really vain/fake - just hiking to pose for Insta