What?

That's how it works, I'm afraid.

since I cummed the first time I masturbated, I never had the pleasure of dry ones. I have read that with dry orgasms , u could easily masturbate 2 or 3 times in a row and orgasm. Just with no cum.
I've always wanted to do that, but cum each time.
For anyone that has dry orgasms for now, yes this is the difference and disappointed bit of being able to cum. Ur dick gets sensitive and goes soft

That's the problem with boy's always need a nap after doing things

I think it's just how it works. I guess because you need time for you to build up again

I'm guessing that is true with a lot (or most?) guys. It's a normal physical thing, and there's really nothing that you're doing wrong. It's just a difference between the sexes

I can't speak for all girls, but that sometimes isn't true at all for me

Ah… I understand now. I was confused and thought you meant sitting back to back with someone else!

Yes, I think most boys have this issue… if not all boys.

Honestly I don't even remember being able to orgasm back to back back when I couldn't cum... It seems the same to me dry or not

i know how you feel i used to be able to do it like 3 times in a row but now i cant

Yeah, multiple dry orgasms were awesome. I have been able to have 2 in row even tho they are no longer dry. Takes a little practice, or better yet, a "helping hand"

I always say to boys who moan that they can't cum yet, ENJOY IT! - The days of numerous orgasms come to an end for most boys once you can cum unfortunately.

CayceStars wrote:

I'm guessing that is true with a lot (or most?) guys. It's a normal physical thing, and there's really nothing that you're doing wrong. It's just a difference between the sexes

I can't speak for all girls, but that sometimes isn't true at all for me

I do sometimes drift off after the "event" is complete.

Your system needs to relax and re-load after your ejaculation.

Did that happen or is something u are just worried about. There is nothing more embarrassing than being caught by a parent!

You just need to make sure you've already got something ready to wipe up before you even start. That way it will only take a few seconds to wipe it off and you can easily do that before you fall asleep.

The switch from multiple orgasms to one being enough does tend to happen around the time of starting to ejaculate though sometimes the timing seems a little off, i.e. Declan above saying he had switched to single orgasms before he started to ejaculate and others find they can still get multiple orgasms in the very early days of ejaculating.

It also makes sense when you consider the reproductive purpose of sex. The males of most species try to spread their seed among many females to maximise the presence of their genes in the next generation. Orgasm is our reward for "sowing our seed" and it makes little sense in that context to be rewarded for ejaculating a second, smaller load into the same girl immediately after the first one and much more sense to have a rest and then maybe shoot the next load into a different girl.

So now you're limited to one, the way forward is to enjoy that one as much as possible. Some of that will probably happen naturally as there are pleasant sensations from ejaculating that will increase as the size of your load increases. What you can do to help, though, is practice edging, otherwise known as stop & go, i.e. when you feel you're getting really close to cumming you stop, or at least reduce the stimulation by stroking slower or more lightly. Then when you feel you're not so close any more you start up again and return to that point. This has two advantages: 1. the feeling of being close to cumming is actually quite nice on its own and this way you can enjoy it for much longer than the few second an orgasm takes. 2. it builds up more tension which is then released when you finally decide to cum so the orgasm is then more intense that it would otherwise have been.

OMG

Im pretty sure that's normal but weirdly for me i can still do it multiple times a row like last night i did three times in a row lol im 16 btw

I can only manage to cum once before it goes soft again