How does ejaculation happen?

  • Starlord wrote:

    Alanjr wrote:

    You said nothing comes out. How old are you? Did you start puberty? I know I started late because I only started to get hair above my penis way after I turned 13. Two of my friends had hair there before me
    I am exactly the same, one of my friends had pubes at around 10
    So do you have anything yet? Pubic hair or can you ejaculate? What you are saying is a little bit confusing

  • Alanjr wrote:

    I beat off for the first time about a week ago. Nobody was home got naked and played till my penis was hard. I heard about it and tried it but stopped because I thought I was gonna pee. I did it again when the feeling went away and stopped because I was afraid of peeing. But the last time I didn't stop and sperm came out. A lot of sperm. It felt so good. I did it later that night. Now it's fun everyday. I'm not cut either.
    That's really cool man, just ENJOY it and HAVE FUN! We are growing - i feel like it's so awesome we can use our bodies to have this much fun. I started cumming last year.

  • Kyler15 wrote:

    Hahahaha that is true but isn't it still cool? I mean even if I squirt my cum all over i still think its FUN, and kind of hot!!
    Yes.

    I tend to be a bit analytical but my take on this is that:
    • Most of the intensely good feeling comes from the orgasm and you still get that whether you ejaculate or not.
    • Ejaculation definitely adds extra, pleasant sensations on top of the orgasm and you will feel both the orgasm and those pleasurable sensations regardless of where the cum goes once it's out of your cock.
    • There is a sense of freedom from just "letting it fly" rather than needing to concentrate on aiming into something. Cum is also warm so having it hand on you is yet another pleasant sensation.
    • We seem to have a certain fascination with ejaculation, perhaps because it is one of the milestones in the transition from boy to man. This is reflected in, for example, liking to see if spurt out.
    • Because we talk of needing to cum regularly and how hard it is to resist the urge, because we generally do it in private and because it involves our penis, some guys can lump cumming in with going to the toilet as one of those inconvenient aspects of our bodies that we acknowledge but prefer not to think about and confining masturbation to the bathroom, especially standing at the toilet can reinforce that. It really helps instead to think of it as one of life's great pleasures, a really positive and fun part of male sexual maturity.

  • Birds18 wrote:

    Butlersbus wrote:

    Good post above. For some reason I always look at myself right when I cum, don’t know why, I always watch it come out
    Because you have to make sure that it came out. Do you make a lot?
    Yet, if we close our eyes we can still feel it come out, or at least feel it moving through the urethra (the tube from our bladder to our penis tip) which is just as well as we wouldn't see it if receieving a blowjob during which we finish in our partners mouth or during sex.

    Yet, it does seem to be a very common thing. If you watch porn in which the guy's penis is not inside a (tempoerary) partner while he cums and where you can see his face too, pretty often he is looking at his own cock, watching himself cum.

    Then it isn't simple curiosity because that could be satisfied by watching it once or twice and then not any more. Maybe it's because vision is such a strong sense for us we do like to have visual confimration of what we're feeling or maybe it's something else.

    As for how common this is, I'll create a poll in aother thread.

  • Sean2001 wrote:

    Birds18 wrote:

    Butlersbus wrote:

    Good post above. For some reason I always look at myself right when I cum, don’t know why, I always watch it come out
    Because you have to make sure that it came out. Do you make a lot?
    Yet, if we close our eyes we can still feel it come out, or at least feel it moving through the urethra (the tube from our bladder to our penis tip) which is just as well as we wouldn't see it if receieving a blowjob during which we finish in our partners mouth or during sex.
    Yet, it does seem to be a very common thing. If you watch porn in which the guy's penis is not inside a (tempoerary) partner while he cums and where you can see his face too, pretty often he is looking at his own cock, watching himself cum.

    Then it isn't simple curiosity because that could be satisfied by watching it once or twice and then not any more. Maybe it's because vision is such a strong sense for us we do like to have visual confimration of what we're feeling or maybe it's something else.

    As for how common this is, I'll create a poll in aother thread.
    I think watching it spurt contributes to the intensity of the feeling while masturbating. It adds to the sensation for sure. I think it is science based ... the more senses involved, the great the intensity?

  • I watch ,ome when oit comes out

    collin13 wrote:

    Sean2001 wrote:

    Birds18 wrote:

    Butlersbus wrote:

    Good post above. For some reason I always look at myself right when I cum, don’t know why, I always watch it come out
    Because you have to make sure that it came out. Do you make a lot?
    Yet, if we close our eyes we can still feel it come out, or at least feel it moving through the urethra (the tube from our bladder to our penis tip) which is just as well as we wouldn't see it if receieving a blowjob during which we finish in our partners mouth or during sex.Yet, it does seem to be a very common thing. If you watch porn in which the guy's penis is not inside a (tempoerary) partner while he cums and where you can see his face too, pretty often he is looking at his own cock, watching himself cum.

    Then it isn't simple curiosity because that could be satisfied by watching it once or twice and then not any more. Maybe it's because vision is such a strong sense for us we do like to have visual confimration of what we're feeling or maybe it's something else.

    As for how common this is, I'll create a poll in aother thread.
    I think watching it spurt contributes to the intensity of the feeling while masturbating. It adds to the sensation for sure. I think it is science based ... the more senses involved, the great the intensity?
    I watch mine come out and I think it makes it more intense too.