my brother is 12 and yesterday he asked me if i can teach him how to touch himself. he said his friends were talking about it at school and i told him i would, i just want to know if its normal to teach him, to show him and stuff to help him learn, and i want to know if its gay or anything thanks
Teaching my brother to masturbate?
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Well i think it's completely fine, as long as you are calm and natural with him, explaining things in a good and safe way and teaching him responsibly, i don't think that there's anything wrong with showing him or helping him, you're teaching him and you are his brother and he trusts you, i think it's completely fine. I wouldn't say it is gay, no.
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why do you have to "teach" him? Can't you just explain it to him? I'm sure he is plenty capable of figuring it out on his own.
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double post, sorry
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I think its ok if you just be careful and friendly
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I think it’s fine to explain how it works but wouldn’t do it to him or show him how you do it unless you are both fine with it.
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Nothing wrong in it ..you show to him and teach about the process..Even if you don't teach him he will learn from his friends........
Goerg wrote:
my brother is 12 and yesterday he asked me if i can teach him how to touch himself. he said his friends were talking about it at school and i told him i would, i just want to know if its normal to teach him, to show him and stuff to help him learn, and i want to know if its gay or anything thanks
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Fiona, don't ruin the "story" with your logic!!
BlackParadePixie wrote:
why do you have to "teach" him? Can't you just explain it to him? I'm sure he is plenty capable of figuring it out on his own.
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Yeah, that's kind of the thing, in reality. No one needs to actually "teach" anyone how to do anything....not by example. I can understand maybe a short talk, but people are going to discover what they like and what works for them on their own anyways. The whole teaching people to masturbate thing isn't necessary, and talking about it like it's a normal situation is basically only for entertainment purposes on a forum
BlackParadePixie wrote:
why do you have to "teach" him? Can't you just explain it to him? I'm sure he is plenty capable of figuring it out on his own.
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I mean yeah sure but like you can just tell him what it is and how to do it, no need to 'teach' him to do itBored 24/7 feel free to pm whenever
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Yes, because for boys it’s not exactly hard to figure out, is it?CayceStars wrote:
Yeah, that's kind of the thing, in reality. No one needs to actually "teach" anyone how to do anything....not by example. I can understand maybe a short talk, but people are going to discover what they like and what works for them on their own anyways. The whole teaching people to masturbate thing isn't necessary, and talking about it like it's a normal situation is basically only for entertainment purposes on a forumBlackParadePixie wrote:
why do you have to "teach" him? Can't you just explain it to him? I'm sure he is plenty capable of figuring it out on his own.
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I see your point, but I think mine is that people (guys and girls) aren't going to all like or do the same things when they masturbate. They will figure out what works for them on their own, through their own experience
HannahW wrote:
Yes, because for boys it’s not exactly hard to figure out, is it?CayceStars wrote:
Yeah, that's kind of the thing, in reality. No one needs to actually "teach" anyone how to do anything....not by example. I can understand maybe a short talk, but people are going to discover what they like and what works for them on their own anyways. The whole teaching people to masturbate thing isn't necessary, and talking about it like it's a normal situation is basically only for entertainment purposes on a forumBlackParadePixie wrote:
why do you have to "teach" him? Can't you just explain it to him? I'm sure he is plenty capable of figuring it out on his own.
The whole "teach" thing is straight up not an effective way (and probably not even real in most cases tbh) -
I think my point is that it all sounds a bit meh! … and probably fakeCayceStars wrote:
I see your point, but I think mine is that people (guys and girls) aren't going to all like or do the same things when they masturbate. They will figure out what works for them on their own, through their own experienceHannahW wrote:
Yes, because for boys it’s not exactly hard to figure out, is it?CayceStars wrote:
Yeah, that's kind of the thing, in reality. No one needs to actually "teach" anyone how to do anything....not by example. I can understand maybe a short talk, but people are going to discover what they like and what works for them on their own anyways. The whole teaching people to masturbate thing isn't necessary, and talking about it like it's a normal situation is basically only for entertainment purposes on a forumBlackParadePixie wrote:
why do you have to "teach" him? Can't you just explain it to him? I'm sure he is plenty capable of figuring it out on his own.
The whole "teach" thing is straight up not an effective way (and probably not even real in most cases tbh)
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It's perfectly okay to explain the process of masturbating to him and let him try doing it on his own. If both of you are fine with doing it together that could be a teaching moment for him. However, I think he would be better served if he talks with his friends about masturbation and maybe masturbate with some of them if he is comfortable with doing that with them.Vivimus Volare, Volamus Vivere,
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Why does he need teaching? Is that the only way boys can do it if they're taught and shown? Not even sure you'd really need to tell him much. Internet and friends probably hold the information he'd need. And can probably learn what's good and what to do himself
Or are the boys saying that's how they discovered it that way all liars. Or the toddler's who touch themselves crazy smart
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nobody needs to be taught it's self explanatory. Especially not from a family member. If this is real, and I hope not, tell him to google it.
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the way boys seem to always have their hands down there I didn't think they need to be taught
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I think it's an instinct that comes with them from birth.
LittleAnna wrote:
the way boys seem to always have their hands down there I didn't think they need to be taught
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LittleAnna wrote:
the way boys seem to always have their hands down there I didn't think they need to be taught
I started even earlier, I've seen the ultra sound picture that prove it
Pultost wrote:
I think it's an instinct that comes with them from birth.LittleAnna wrote:
the way boys seem to always have their hands down there I didn't think they need to be taught
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great first post. There’s nothing creepy about this, except teaching your brother how to masturbate. Were YOU taught? Most people don’t need a teacher for that
Goerg wrote:
my brother is 12 and yesterday he asked me if i can teach him how to touch himself. he said his friends were talking about it at school and i told him i would, i just want to know if its normal to teach him, to show him and stuff to help him learn, and i want to know if its gay or anything thanks
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