dooby wrote:

Natacha wrote:

The way he ditched you to hang out with her was totally wrong. If you have a date, that's first priority and to say he is not up for it, should mean he is really sick.
A boyfriend should have the possibility of seeing other girls on a friendly basis without questions, and a girlfriend should be allowed to spend time with other boys on the same conditions. No questions asked.
But he is making it hard not to suspect something is quite off.

Totally agree I'm fine with him hanging out with girls it's just I'd rather I come first. And the fact he didn't tell me or invite me, it just feels like he was trying to keep it secret but idk I will try not to let it bottle up inside me and just talk to him lol.

dooby wrote:

Natacha wrote:

Great. Talk to him about it. I hope he just doesn't stick to the "You're clingy" thing

Lol so many of my problems could be solved by talking to people directly instead of going to random websites to do it lmao. Idk if the clingy thing is unwarranted, I totally can be a bit much sometimes but yeah it is kinda mean I think.

dooby wrote:

My boyfriend and I have been dating for over a year and so we are close and it's not just a small thing. We had planned a date on Friday and we going to get dinner and see the new Jackass movie (his choice). And then that night while I was getting ready he texts me and says he's just not feeling up to it, we can go another day. I'm like fine, it's totally okay. Then I hear from a mutual friend he had a girl over at his house and he was hanging out with her instead of me. Am I insane for thinking that's wrong??? He says I'm being clingy which ima be real, it's entirely possible but I feel like ditching me to hang out with a girl is not right. It would be fine if he didn't hang out with anyone, but it feels like he just had a better offer. He didn't even invite me over...

I don't even know what my question is really I guess just do you think I'm being unreasonable thinking that it's rude of him?

tfkbuggy wrote:

dooby wrote:

My boyfriend and I have been dating for over a year and so we are close and it's not just a small thing. We had planned a date on Friday and we going to get dinner and see the new Jackass movie (his choice). And then that night while I was getting ready he texts me and says he's just not feeling up to it, we can go another day. I'm like fine, it's totally okay. Then I hear from a mutual friend he had a girl over at his house and he was hanging out with her instead of me. Am I insane for thinking that's wrong??? He says I'm being clingy which ima be real, it's entirely possible but I feel like ditching me to hang out with a girl is not right. It would be fine if he didn't hang out with anyone, but it feels like he just had a better offer. He didn't even invite me over...

I don't even know what my question is really I guess just do you think I'm being unreasonable thinking that it's rude of him?

Short: he cheated on you. Leave it there.

tfkbuggy wrote:

dooby wrote:

My boyfriend and I have been dating for over a year and so we are close and it's not just a small thing. We had planned a date on Friday and we going to get dinner and see the new Jackass movie (his choice). And then that night while I was getting ready he texts me and says he's just not feeling up to it, we can go another day. I'm like fine, it's totally okay. Then I hear from a mutual friend he had a girl over at his house and he was hanging out with her instead of me. Am I insane for thinking that's wrong??? He says I'm being clingy which ima be real, it's entirely possible but I feel like ditching me to hang out with a girl is not right. It would be fine if he didn't hang out with anyone, but it feels like he just had a better offer. He didn't even invite me over...

I don't even know what my question is really I guess just do you think I'm being unreasonable thinking that it's rude of him?

Short: he cheated on you. Leave it there.

TaylerL wrote:

You’ve been together a year and he wants to hang out with another girl? Girl, I’m sorry but ditch him. That’s not cool at all. Yes he can be friends with other girls, but he’s acting shady and hid it from you. Something’s wrong here. You’re not being clingy. You’re in a relationship and he should respect that. If he is truly wanting to be with other girls instead of you, respect yourself enough to cut him loose

dooby wrote:

My boyfriend and I have been dating for over a year and so we are close and it's not just a small thing. We had planned a date on Friday and we going to get dinner and see the new Jackass movie (his choice). And then that night while I was getting ready he texts me and says he's just not feeling up to it, we can go another day. I'm like fine, it's totally okay. Then I hear from a mutual friend he had a girl over at his house and he was hanging out with her instead of me. Am I insane for thinking that's wrong??? He says I'm being clingy which ima be real, it's entirely possible but I feel like ditching me to hang out with a girl is not right. It would be fine if he didn't hang out with anyone, but it feels like he just had a better offer. He didn't even invite me over...

I don't even know what my question is really I guess just do you think I'm being unreasonable thinking that it's rude of him?