i really want a girlfriend. someone to be with someone to hold and trust. but no one will ever talk to me
girlfriend
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sometimes you have to be the one to initiate the talking. No girl is just suddenly going to decide to be your girlfriend out of the blue. It takes time and effort to get to know someone and develop a relationship.
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Try taking to girls you’re not going to get on just sitting there and doing nothing
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Just strike up a casual conversation with a girl you like, get to know her and let her get to know you, you will find that girls are not as difficult to talk to as you think, maybe invite a girl out to a coffee shop for to a little study session
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Most of my connections with girls have been from working on projects, or being in groups together. Just going up to a girl I may have an interest in and striking up a conversation doesn't work well with me. If the focus of our interactions is something other than the two of us, I get to know them easier, and they to know me. Then it's a smoother and more natural transition to expressing an interest.
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I think you need to focus on meeting a girl, listening to her, and building a relationship of trust slowly. Focus on the person and the relationship growing bit by bit. Do not focus on your wants of wanting a person to hold and trust. Like my coaches always say, "focus on the process, not the goal."
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