First Time Seeing Opposite Gender

    • First Time Seeing Opposite Gender

      So, I have been wondering;
      Do you remember the first time you saw the opposite gender nude?
      How old were you?
      How old were they?
      Had you started puberty?
      Had they?
      How did you see them, changing or other?
      Was it the first time you did something sexual?
      Was it an accident?
      Were you both naked?
      Did you feel uncomfortable about it?
      If they saw you too, did you feel uncomfortable about them seeing you?

    • Not counting very young children on the beach, and also not fully nude...

      Do you remember the first time you saw the opposite gender nude? Yes
      How old were you? 12 or 13 (it was UK school year 8, equivalent to US 7th grade, but I don't remember how far through the year).
      How old were they? The same
      Had you started puberty? Yes
      Had they? Yes
      How did you see them, changing or other? I'll show you mime if you show me yours
      Was it the first time you did something sexual? No, we just looked
      Was it an accident? No, we talked about it first
      Were you both naked? Not fully, but we showed each other the bits that are different.
      Did you feel uncomfortable about it? No
      If they saw you too, did you feel uncomfortable about them seeing you? No

    • Benny973 wrote:

      So, I have been wondering;
      Do you remember the first time you saw the opposite gender nude?
      How old were you?11
      How old were they? various
      Had you started puberty?yes
      Had they?yes
      How did you see them, changing or other? swimming camp
      Was it the first time you did something sexual?no
      Was it an accident?no
      Were you both naked?no
      Did you feel uncomfortable about it?no
      If they saw you too, did you feel uncomfortable about them seeing you?no
      Live for today

    • Do you remember the first time you saw the opposite gender nude? Yes
      How old were you? 13
      How old were they? 15
      Had you started puberty? Yes
      Had they? Yes
      How did you see them, changing or other? We had sex
      Was it the first time you did something sexual? No
      Was it an accident? Kinda (it certainly wasn't planned!)
      Were you both naked? Yes
      Did you feel uncomfortable about it? No
      If they saw you too, did you feel uncomfortable about them seeing you? No

    • Do you remember the first time you saw the opposite gender nude? maybe :/
      How old were you? preschool
      How old were they? preschool
      Had you started puberty? no
      Had they? no
      How did you see them, changing or other? accident :)
      Was it the first time you did something sexual? no
      Was it an accident? yes
      Were you both naked? no
      Did you feel uncomfortable about it? no
      If they saw you too, did you feel uncomfortable about them seeing you? no

    • Do you remember the first time you saw the opposite gender nude? Yes
      How old were you? like 7/8
      How old were they? 6/7ish ( didnt know them)
      Had you started puberty? no
      Had they? no
      How did you see them, changing or other? Changing rooms as had to use girls changing room for swim practice
      Was it the first time you did something sexual?no
      Was it an accident? kind of
      Were you both naked? yes
      Did you feel uncomfortable about it? no
      If they saw you too, did you feel uncomfortable about them seeing you? no

    • Do you remember the first time you saw the opposite gender nude? Yes
      How old were you? 12
      How old were they? 15
      Had you started puberty? yes
      Had they? yes
      How did you see them, changing or other? we had sex
      Was it the first time you did something sexual? yes
      Was it an accident? no
      Were you both naked? yes
      Did you feel uncomfortable about it? no
      If they saw you too, did you feel uncomfortable about them seeing you? no

    • So, I have been wondering;
      Do you remember the first time you saw the opposite gender nude? not like exact
      How old were you? Around 5ish (Kindergarten)
      How old were they? Around 5ish (Kindergarten)
      Had you started puberty? Obviously not
      Had they? Obviously not
      How did you see them, changing or other? Changing into swim clothes
      Was it the first time you did something sexual? It wasn't sexual
      Was it an accident? Well i didn't planned it, but i guess not
      Were you both naked? yes
      Did you feel uncomfortable about it? Back then, i wasn't or not like that much, but nowadays i would be a lot more.
      If they saw you too, did you feel uncomfortable about them seeing you? see above

    • Do you remember the first time you saw the opposite gender nude? Yes
      How old were you? 13
      How old were they? 11 or 12
      Had you started puberty? No
      Had they? Didn't look like it
      How did you see them, changing or other? At a resort
      Was it the first time you did something sexual? No
      Was it an accident? No
      Were you both naked? Yes
      Did you feel uncomfortable about it? A little at first
      If they saw you too, did you feel uncomfortable about them seeing you? A little at first

    • Do you remember the first time you saw the opposite gender nude? Yes
      How old were you?11
      How old were they?11
      Had you started puberty? Not really. Had a patch of pubes.
      Had they? No
      How did you see them, changing or other? Changing
      Was it the first time you did something sexual?Nothing sexual
      Was it an accident?No
      Were you both naked?Yes
      Did you feel uncomfortable about it?yes
      If they saw you too, did you feel uncomfortable about them seeing you? Indifferent

    • Do you remember the first time you saw the opposite gender nude?
      Yes, my best friends little sister i used to be alone with

      How old were you?
      15

      How old were they?
      A lot younger

      Had you started puberty?
      Yes

      Had they?
      No

      How did you see them, changing or other?
      She showed me, and I showed her

      Was it the first time you did something sexual?
      No but it was the first time i had sex

      Was it an accident?
      No

      Were you both naked?
      Yeah

      Did you feel uncomfortable about it?
      No i was just horny/excited

      If they saw you too, did you feel uncomfortable about them seeing you?
      No not really

    • theletters wrote:

      Do you remember the first time you saw the opposite gender nude?
      Yes, my best friends little sister i used to be alone with

      How old were you?
      15

      How old were they?
      A lot younger

      Had you started puberty?
      Yes

      Had they?
      No

      How did you see them, changing or other?
      She showed me, and I showed her

      Was it the first time you did something sexual?
      No but it was the first time i had sex

      Was it an accident?
      No

      Were you both naked?
      Yeah

      Did you feel uncomfortable about it?
      No i was just horny/excited

      If they saw you too, did you feel uncomfortable about them seeing you?
      No not really
      So, according to this you got turned on my, and then had sex with, a pre-pubescent girl and yet you moaned when, in a different thread, someone used the term "pedophile" to describe you. Having just been reading the psychological definition of paedophile for another post in that thread, this seems a pretty good match. I think you should be engaging the services of a psychologist/psychiatrist. I just hope you haven't done the same again in the intervening two years.

    • So, I have been wondering;
      Do you remember the first time you saw the opposite gender nude? yes
      How old were you? 8
      How old were they? 8
      Had you started puberty? no
      Had they? no
      How did you see them, changing or other? changing
      Was it the first time you did something sexual? no
      Was it an accident? yep
      Were you both naked? no
      Did you feel uncomfortable about it? a little but also curious
      If they saw you too, did you feel uncomfortable about them seeing you? na

    • Sean2001 wrote:

      theletters wrote:

      Do you remember the first time you saw the opposite gender nude?
      Yes, my best friends little sister i used to be alone with

      How old were you?
      15

      How old were they?
      A lot younger

      Had you started puberty?
      Yes

      Had they?
      No

      How did you see them, changing or other?
      She showed me, and I showed her

      Was it the first time you did something sexual?
      No but it was the first time i had sex

      Was it an accident?
      No

      Were you both naked?
      Yeah

      Did you feel uncomfortable about it?
      No i was just horny/excited

      If they saw you too, did you feel uncomfortable about them seeing you?
      No not really
      So, according to this you got turned on my, and then had sex with, a pre-pubescent girl and yet you moaned when, in a different thread, someone used the term "pedophile" to describe you. Having just been reading the psychological definition of paedophile for another post in that thread, this seems a pretty good match. I think you should be engaging the services of a psychologist/psychiatrist. I just hope you haven't done the same again in the intervening two years.
      lol alr bro

    • Sean2001 wrote:

      theletters wrote:

      Do you remember the first time you saw the opposite gender nude?
      Yes, my best friends little sister i used to be alone with

      How old were you?
      15

      How old were they?
      A lot younger

      Had you started puberty?
      Yes

      Had they?
      No

      How did you see them, changing or other?
      She showed me, and I showed her

      Was it the first time you did something sexual?
      No but it was the first time i had sex

      Was it an accident?
      No

      Were you both naked?
      Yeah

      Did you feel uncomfortable about it?
      No i was just horny/excited

      If they saw you too, did you feel uncomfortable about them seeing you?
      No not really
      So, according to this you got turned on my, and then had sex with, a pre-pubescent girl and yet you moaned when, in a different thread, someone used the term "pedophile" to describe you. Having just been reading the psychological definition of paedophile for another post in that thread, this seems a pretty good match. I think you should be engaging the services of a psychologist/psychiatrist. I just hope you haven't done the same again in the intervening two years.
      Says the 21 year old on a sex forum with a bunch of minors.

    • theletters wrote:

      Sean2001 wrote:

      So, according to this you got turned on my, and then had sex with, a pre-pubescent girl and yet you moaned when, in a different thread, someone used the term "pedophile" to describe you. Having just been reading the psychological definition of paedophile for another post in that thread, this seems a pretty good match. I think you should be engaging the services of a psychologist/psychiatrist. I just hope you haven't done the same again in the intervening two years.
      lol alr bro
      he has a point...