It will definitely be awkward. Not that I'm experienced with girls, but it will be awkward. You just have to make sure you BOTH are 100 percent ready. I think once that happens, things change. The relationship is on another level. You shouldn't lube up your penis then put a condom on either cos it might slip. Depending on what your girth is determines condom size, not length too. I think its a good idea to practice with them before hand alone too so you know how they go on, especially if you both are inexperienced. Also who cares about inexperience! Everyone is at one point or another and it will definitely be awkward but that's all part of the experience! If that makes sense. Just some wisdom from a guy without experience with girls, but I think my experience with boys still applies, except the risk of pregnancy part!
Condoms
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with all the the comments and PMs I have gotten, I am finding my friends are as not as experienced with sex as they think, a few bave told me that their is nothing hard about sex all you got to do is stick your penis in and out of the hole , the girl just lays there and after a few minutes you are done. I am finding thur all the help for others here , that there is whole lot more to.sex and that the ackward moments are to be expected and can be very exciting its self, the learning curve for both the boy and girl. Also learned that the girl has just as much if not more to do during sex as the boy does to make sex enjoyable by both
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Robrob12 wrote:
with all the the comments and PMs I have gotten, I am finding my friends are as not as experienced with sex as they think....
According to stats, most 14 y/os are virgins, though some have started having sex. There does seem to be a lot of bravado and some will make out they are more experienced than they are.
Robrob12 wrote:
... a few bave told me that their is nothing hard about sex all you got to do is stick your penis in and out of the hole , the girl just lays there and after a few minutes you are done.
A certain amount is instinctive. If there was no need for a condom, most guys should be able to work out how to get it in and then hump until they cum, which is sufficient for breeding but maybe not so much fun for her. If doing that much wasn't a basic instinct in mammals generally, most of them would have died out years ago. But, as humans, we're usually trying to get the pleasure and intimacy of it. for both of you, without breeding so it takes a little more thought.
Robrob12 wrote:
...Also learned that the girl has just as much if not more to do during sex as the boy does to make sex enjoyable by both
Absolutely. So much of what we see/hear presents sex and something the guy does to the girl, as if it is some kind of conquest. That is very definitely the wrong approach. Sex is something your explore together and you should be communicating from when the idea is first hinted at until after you've finished.
I am not sure if the issue of lube was fully resolved. You don't want lubrication between your penis and the inside of the condom as that makes it more like to fall off. The sliding should be happening between the outside of the condom and her vagina and she is quite likely to be wet enough not to need any additional lube. If that isn't so, any extra lube needs to be water-based and applied to the outside surface of the condom. -
Robrob12 wrote:
a few have told me that their is nothing hard about sex all you got to do is stick your penis in and out of the hole , the girl just lays there and after a few minutes you are done
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CayceStars wrote:
I will confirm that if anyone tells you that, they are very wrong
wow, that's.....wow
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Fiona has already answered your questions very well.
Condoms not only protect against a possible pregnancy but also against sexually transmitted diseases (HIV, syphilis, gonorrhea).
In contrast, if you use a condom while masturbating, it will not fall off during sex. maybe afterwards, when your penis shrinks
again and the condom is loose as a result.
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I use magnum xl's.
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gagefromtx wrote:
I use magnum xl's.
Unless you just want to tell everyone you're a big dick
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gagefromtx wrote:
I use magnum xl's.
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BJade wrote:
gagefromtx wrote:
I use magnum xl's.
Unless you just want to tell everyone you're a big dick
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BlackParadePixie wrote:
BJade wrote:
gagefromtx wrote:
I use magnum xl's.
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I use also Magnum.
Is an ice cream - or not?
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naturelover-VT wrote:
I use also Magnum.
Is an ice cream - or not?
but out of all the Magnums, I think I want this one the most
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naturelover-VT wrote:
I use also Magnum.
Is an ice cream - or not?
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I've had sex with one girl twice. She's on bc pills. I made her show me the package since she didn't want me to use a condom. Please don't get mad at me regarding STD's. It was either don't use a condom or she wouldn't do me.Somewhat hyper
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CooperJ wrote:
I've had sex with one girl twice. She's on bc pills. I made her show me the package since she didn't want me to use a condom. Please don't get mad at me regarding STD's. It was either don't use a condom or she wouldn't do me.
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pahern0317 wrote:
STDs can live forever.
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BlackParadePixie wrote:
pahern0317 wrote:
STDs can live forever.
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CooperJ wrote:
Medications kill the STD
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