Variations in horniness by sex?

    • Variations in horniness by sex?

      Does your horniness vary in a cycle? 18
      1.  
        I am female and my horniness varies according to my monthly hormone (period) cycle. (2) 11%
      2.  
        I am female and my horniness varies according to some other cycle or varies at random. (1) 6%
      3.  
        I am female and my horniness does not seem to vary. (0) 0%
      4.  
        I am male and there seems to be a cyclical variation in my horniness (0) 0%
      5.  
        I am male and there seems to be a random variation in my horniness (7) 39%
      6.  
        I am male and my horniness is more or less constant (8) 44%
      A girl I know experiences a lot of variation in how horny she is and it seems to be tied to her cycle. Around the time of ovulation she is insanely horny and then a few days later she is not even slightly horny. Then it gradually starts to build again to another peak around ovulation in the next cycle.

      By comparison I am horny every day with occasional days when it seems more than usual but certainly no days when I am not horny and no particular cycle to tie it onto. I wonder if this is a general difference between the sexes or whether it also varies within any one sex.
    • I gotta think about it more before making a pick. Generally I'd say my horniness is constantly high. But I have been able to go 2 weeks without nutting before which is pretty good compared to other boys. If you're busy in life and don't talk about sex or watch porn, hormones can be managed. Tough part is when you get to bed. But if you're super tired you just fall asleep. Otherwise hormones rage.
    • Gabraham247 wrote:

      I gotta think about it more before making a pick. Generally I'd say my horniness is constantly high. But I have been able to go 2 weeks without nutting before which is pretty good compared to other boys. If you're busy in life and don't talk about sex or watch porn, hormones can be managed. Tough part is when you get to bed. But if you're super tired you just fall asleep. Otherwise hormones rage.

      Yes, constantly high is my pick, too. There is a variation in that I am the least horny just after I've cum and it quickly builds back up from there, but that wasn't really what this question is about. It's more that I am not more horny on Wednesdays than on Monday or more horny in the middle of the month than at the end of it, etc.

      Two weeks without cumming is longer that I have managed. On the thing about being busy, it does seem to me that horniness is competing for our attention with other things. That means if we're bored we don't really need to be that horny before reacting to it. That explains why people masturbate more during holidays or have odd, bored days when they see how many times they can do it. If we're busy doing other things it has to build up a bit more before demanding our attention.

      I am intrigued by the comment "Tough part is when you get to bed" as if you're trying to actively avoid responding to being horny rather than simply being too busy with other things to notice. My only experience of that is while camping with guys I didn't know very well and didn't have very much privacy, certainly not last thing at night. Even then I had to find some privacy before long.

      When you do have privacy, it would be a pity to feel that horniness is something that has to fought against, managed to push responding to it, i.e. masturbation or sex, into a corner of one's life. Yes, there still needs to be time for the rest of life but most people don't have to work at maintaining that balance. Being horny should never be seen as a problem but as opportunity to enjoy one of life's great pleasures.
    • I think "random variation" describes it best for me. I don't think I'd be able to identify any cyclical pattern, just that it comes and goes. I'd say it's higher now than when I was younger, but not always high. The annoying thing is when something makes me horny at an inconvenient time. X/ X/

      I doubt there could be any biological, cyclical horniness in guys. It's just normal to be horny a lot, especially at this age. But it's also normal to not be in the mood sometimes and for other things to be a priority.
    • Gabraham247 wrote:

      I gotta think about it more before making a pick. Generally I'd say my horniness is constantly high. But I have been able to go 2 weeks without nutting before which is pretty good compared to other boys. If you're busy in life and don't talk about sex or watch porn, hormones can be managed. Tough part is when you get to bed. But if you're super tired you just fall asleep. Otherwise hormones rage.

      Gabraham247 wrote:

      I gotta think about it more before making a pick. Generally I'd say my horniness is constantly high. But I have been able to go 2 weeks without nutting before which is pretty good compared to other boys. If you're busy in life and don't talk about sex or watch porn, hormones can be managed. Tough part is when you get to bed. But if you're super tired you just fall asleep. Otherwise hormones rage.
      Two weeks is a long time :lol: :D
      Live for today
    • Chris 16 wrote:

      Gabraham247 wrote:

      I gotta think about it more before making a pick. Generally I'd say my horniness is constantly high. But I have been able to go 2 weeks without nutting before which is pretty good compared to other boys. If you're busy in life and don't talk about sex or watch porn, hormones can be managed. Tough part is when you get to bed. But if you're super tired you just fall asleep. Otherwise hormones rage.

      Gabraham247 wrote:

      I gotta think about it more before making a pick. Generally I'd say my horniness is constantly high. But I have been able to go 2 weeks without nutting before which is pretty good compared to other boys. If you're busy in life and don't talk about sex or watch porn, hormones can be managed. Tough part is when you get to bed. But if you're super tired you just fall asleep. Otherwise hormones rage.
      Two weeks is a long time :lol: :D
      Give me another week. Don't rush me bruh
    • It varies, sometimes I'm horny pretty often, other times not at all.
      Sometimes I have to j /o before getting up from the bed in the morning, even 2 or 3 times on week-ends. Sometimes I dont.

      I haven't j/o on my own for the past 2-3 weeks (but I've done stuff with my bf :P )

      So I guess my hormons peaks vary