Laws wrote:
Well Danny I hope the situation works out for you some way in the end. This is some pretty serious stuff. hoping for the best for ya
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Laws wrote:
Well Danny I hope the situation works out for you some way in the end. This is some pretty serious stuff. hoping for the best for ya
Laws wrote:
His bio says he's white but according to his post he's apparently not.Eilae wrote:
Why does it upset you that she cheated with a white boy? Aren’t you white?
What in the bloody heck.
AB/CD wrote:
his actual Ethnicity says multi ethnicLaws wrote:
His bio says he's white but according to his post he's apparently not.What in the bloody heck.Eilae wrote:
Why does it upset you that she cheated with a white boy? Aren’t you white?
pahern0317 wrote:
There are ways to phrase a question that describes something without using f bombs.
BJade wrote:
There's just way to many problems everyone involved in this has. Cheating, lying and a complete lack of anyone grown up enough to actually look after a baby when it born. Kinda sad![]()
If she is pregnant, who ever the kids father is, she needs a proper grown up to look after her and help her deal with it.buy not sure there sounds like there is
Gabraham247 wrote:
Ya reading the OP was almost like reading the bathroom stall wall in a boys bathroom at a park lol. So many f-bombs and graphic description about where he cummed. It almost made me blush, and not much can make me blush. A lot of lmaos and lmfaos too in the follow ups. You'd nearly think this isnt a big deal. But actually pregnancy, and motherhood, and fatherhood, and false accusations are VERY serious. Having said that, im not too concerned with the language and expressions used. True it’s probably best used in boys locker rooms as opposed to mixed gender and mixed aged and mixed religious belief pages. But im way more concerned about the baby and mother than a few fbombs. Or the OP if the girl is trying to set him up.pahern0317 wrote:
There are ways to phrase a question that describes something without using f bombs.
collin13 wrote:
This is the most convoluted, messed up thread I've ever seen on TH and that's saying something!!!!
I'm not following any of this, and I don't think I want to.
Determine if the baby is yours. If not, move on. If so, find out what she expects and wants out of you.
I guess I'm stuck on the fact that if having sex with a girl that you should be prepared to accept any consequences of contraceptive failure, if you are smart enough to use them in the first place. Guess I'm lucky being gay that I don't have to worry about getting a girl pregnant but how about a little up front responsibility? Having sex is serious and shouldn't be taken lightly ... straight or gay.
This thread actually makes me sad because I don't view you as a very responsible human being. Sorry, just calling it the way I see it.
DannyYoung95 wrote:
Lmfao damn bro chill wtf?collin13 wrote:
This is the most convoluted, messed up thread I've ever seen on TH and that's saying something!!!!
I'm not following any of this, and I don't think I want to.
Determine if the baby is yours. If not, move on. If so, find out what she expects and wants out of you.
I guess I'm stuck on the fact that if having sex with a girl that you should be prepared to accept any consequences of contraceptive failure, if you are smart enough to use them in the first place. Guess I'm lucky being gay that I don't have to worry about getting a girl pregnant but how about a little up front responsibility? Having sex is serious and shouldn't be taken lightly ... straight or gay.
This thread actually makes me sad because I don't view you as a very responsible human being. Sorry, just calling it the way I see it.
But as I said, I always wear a condom whenever I fuck a girl, every single time.. N then if requested (which it was most times with my ex tbh..) when I’m about to cum she would always want me to take off the condom n then let it all out onto her tits. So I’d always finish there, nowhere near her pussy (which I got told off for saying before for some reason lmao? Sorry guys who actually read what I’ve said so far, just saying tit again to give particularly angry man some context
So I always am careful when having sex, and have never had any issues at all with how I would do it until now. And she has lied about being pregnant to me in the past which is why I wasn’t sure if she actually was this time, or if it was more lies from her… But she is pregnant and I’ve told her to make an appointment with her doctor about finding out who the dad is, and to then let me know when the appointment is and I’lll obviously come along to it with her. So I’m just waiting on her to make that appointment atm lol.
And I completelyyy agree that I’ve got a LOT of growing up to do, and that I need to do it fast if I am in fact the dad, I’d be the first person to admit that!!! But out of me, my ex and her new bf, I run laps around them both as far as being responsible is concerned… I work (a lot!!), I take care of my body and keep as active as possible, I’m careful of what I put into my body food/drink wise, I help anybody who needs it if they simply treat me with respect when asking for help and don’t just expect me to do things for them (so basically if they respectfully ask me to help them, then yeah I’m there for them 100%… BUT if they expect me to help them, and get mad at me if I don’t, orrr if they demand that I help them, then no I won’t help anybody who can’t at least treat me with respect when I’m doing them a favour yk?)
Where as her new BF does cocaine every single day, he gets drunk every single night (usually), they both only eat takeaways and leftover takeaways each night, neither of them work (they both easily could do if they wanted, but they just choose not to ffs), and their home is absolutely trashed with dirty clothes all over the apartment, cat piss on the floor that hasn’t been cleaned up in weeks probably, drug paraphernalia all over the house, and so much more crap too… I’m not perfect at alllll, but I’m a LOT more responsible and willing to change myself however needed for this baby than both of them are combined…
I can tell them my ex truly is trying to sort her life out now that she’s pregnant though, which I respect a lot to say how badly she treated her body in the past! She still has a longggg way to go ofc, but she knows that she needs to sort her body out in order for the baby to be healthy… And that if this baby is mine especially, then I’m going to step tf up and do everything I possibly can do for my kid (if it is mine ofc..), and if it’s not mine, then I’ll help out if it’s an emergency or if the kid is in danger or anything like that, as I obviously don’t want the baby to be hurt I’m any way you know..? But as far as the day to day side of things are concerned, then they’re on their own for that. And she understood that too luckily (which I was surprised by ngl!!)
So as I said, I’m currently just waiting on her to make this appointment to see if it’s mine or her ex’s baby… I can’t do anything until then I don’t think? I’m just currently trying to make a plan for if it is my baby, and wtf I’m going to do to help provide for him/her![]()
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Laws wrote:
I was bored right now so I just randomly decided to actually take time to read a lot of the above.
There's something I'd like to say about this now.
The way you said how you deal with sex especially regarding condoms sounded way too confident.
No condom is truly perfect at its job. They're only roughly 87 – 98% effective depending on who you ask, how often and how well you use them. Not to mention that if you aren't lucky pre-cum itself can contain literal sperm on occasion. There's even a rumor that says although it is quite rare, condoms can break during "usage" without anyone even knowing.
Danny that's great you use a condom every time, but I'm just worried you aren't aware of the risks I mentioned.
If I were you I would replace vaginal for oral and/or anal from now on, assuming if you'd want to continue with sex at all for now. The risks of pregnancies are minimal, and if you never did vaginal in the first place you could rule out for near certainty that you're the dad of no one.
You may not be able to do much now but you can always improve for the future. Again, I wish the best for you Danny. Hope this helps.
pahern0317 wrote:
I sure don't want to dwell on this anymore. Everyone should learn about contraception before engaging. Notice my choice of language. Then, safely using and proper disposal of contraceptives after the fact. None of us need to or want to know details.
if this young girl is pregnant, that is a tragedy. A baby will be born to two young immature parents who both should have used birth control.
ChrisC05 wrote:
collin13 wrote:Your first obligation is to the child whether it is or is not your child , you need to make sure it is brought into world under safe conditions. If in deed the girl and her current bf are living the way your described then you need to take every step towards ensuring the baby will be safe by calling in a well fair check on them explaining your concerns, giving the mother a chance to turn her life around before the baby is born.