ngl this a bs thread ffs ifykyk rofl
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Eilae wrote:
ngl this a bs thread ffs ifykyk rofl
BlackParadePixie wrote:
LOL WHAT???Eilae wrote:
ngl this a bs thread ffs ifykyk rofl
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Eilae wrote:
Just teasingBlackParadePixie wrote:
LOL WHAT???Eilae wrote:
ngl this a bs thread ffs ifykyk rofl
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it just seems so over the top the way he talks
DannyYoung95 wrote:
Lmfao damn bro chill wtf?collin13 wrote:
This is the most convoluted, messed up thread I've ever seen on TH and that's saying something!!!!
I'm not following any of this, and I don't think I want to.
Determine if the baby is yours. If not, move on. If so, find out what she expects and wants out of you.
I guess I'm stuck on the fact that if having sex with a girl that you should be prepared to accept any consequences of contraceptive failure, if you are smart enough to use them in the first place. Guess I'm lucky being gay that I don't have to worry about getting a girl pregnant but how about a little up front responsibility? Having sex is serious and shouldn't be taken lightly ... straight or gay.
This thread actually makes me sad because I don't view you as a very responsible human being. Sorry, just calling it the way I see it.
But as I said, I always wear a condom whenever I fuck a girl, every single time.. N then if requested (which it was most times with my ex tbh..) when I’m about to cum she would always want me to take off the condom n then let it all out onto her tits. So I’d always finish there, nowhere near her pussy (which I got told off for saying before for some reason lmao? Sorry guys who actually read what I’ve said so far, just saying tit again to give particularly angry man some context
So I always am careful when having sex, and have never had any issues at all with how I would do it until now. And she has lied about being pregnant to me in the past which is why I wasn’t sure if she actually was this time, or if it was more lies from her… But she is pregnant and I’ve told her to make an appointment with her doctor about finding out who the dad is, and to then let me know when the appointment is and I’lll obviously come along to it with her. So I’m just waiting on her to make that appointment atm lol.
And I completelyyy agree that I’ve got a LOT of growing up to do, and that I need to do it fast if I am in fact the dad, I’d be the first person to admit that!!! But out of me, my ex and her new bf, I run laps around them both as far as being responsible is concerned… I work (a lot!!), I take care of my body and keep as active as possible, I’m careful of what I put into my body food/drink wise, I help anybody who needs it if they simply treat me with respect when asking for help and don’t just expect me to do things for them (so basically if they respectfully ask me to help them, then yeah I’m there for them 100%… BUT if they expect me to help them, and get mad at me if I don’t, orrr if they demand that I help them, then no I won’t help anybody who can’t at least treat me with respect when I’m doing them a favour yk?)
Where as her new BF does cocaine every single day, he gets drunk every single night (usually), they both only eat takeaways and leftover takeaways each night, neither of them work (they both easily could do if they wanted, but they just choose not to ffs), and their home is absolutely trashed with dirty clothes all over the apartment, cat piss on the floor that hasn’t been cleaned up in weeks probably, drug paraphernalia all over the house, and so much more crap too… I’m not perfect at alllll, but I’m a LOT more responsible and willing to change myself however needed for this baby than both of them are combined…
I can tell them my ex truly is trying to sort her life out now that she’s pregnant though, which I respect a lot to say how badly she treated her body in the past! She still has a longggg way to go ofc, but she knows that she needs to sort her body out in order for the baby to be healthy… And that if this baby is mine especially, then I’m going to step tf up and do everything I possibly can do for my kid (if it is mine ofc..), and if it’s not mine, then I’ll help out if it’s an emergency or if the kid is in danger or anything like that, as I obviously don’t want the baby to be hurt I’m any way you know..? But as far as the day to day side of things are concerned, then they’re on their own for that. And she understood that too luckily (which I was surprised by ngl!!)
So as I said, I’m currently just waiting on her to make this appointment to see if it’s mine or her ex’s baby… I can’t do anything until then I don’t think? I’m just currently trying to make a plan for if it is my baby, and wtf I’m going to do to help provide for him/her![]()
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collin13 wrote:
Sorry mate, I didn't have time to circle back to this but I'll say that based on the way you communicate and demonstrate a total utter lack of respect for the female species, perhaps you shouldn't be having sex at all. I'm not sure very many of the ladies in here would appreciate your talk of cumming all over her tits after you pull out of her. Seriously man ... grow up and have some respect for those you decide to "fuck"DannyYoung95 wrote:
Lmfao damn bro chill wtf?collin13 wrote:
This is the most convoluted, messed up thread I've ever seen on TH and that's saying something!!!!
I'm not following any of this, and I don't think I want to.
Determine if the baby is yours. If not, move on. If so, find out what she expects and wants out of you.
I guess I'm stuck on the fact that if having sex with a girl that you should be prepared to accept any consequences of contraceptive failure, if you are smart enough to use them in the first place. Guess I'm lucky being gay that I don't have to worry about getting a girl pregnant but how about a little up front responsibility? Having sex is serious and shouldn't be taken lightly ... straight or gay.
This thread actually makes me sad because I don't view you as a very responsible human being. Sorry, just calling it the way I see it.
But as I said, I always wear a condom whenever I fuck a girl, every single time.. N then if requested (which it was most times with my ex tbh..) when I’m about to cum she would always want me to take off the condom n then let it all out onto her tits. So I’d always finish there, nowhere near her pussy (which I got told off for saying before for some reason lmao? Sorry guys who actually read what I’ve said so far, just saying tit again to give particularly angry man some context
So I always am careful when having sex, and have never had any issues at all with how I would do it until now. And she has lied about being pregnant to me in the past which is why I wasn’t sure if she actually was this time, or if it was more lies from her… But she is pregnant and I’ve told her to make an appointment with her doctor about finding out who the dad is, and to then let me know when the appointment is and I’lll obviously come along to it with her. So I’m just waiting on her to make that appointment atm lol.
And I completelyyy agree that I’ve got a LOT of growing up to do, and that I need to do it fast if I am in fact the dad, I’d be the first person to admit that!!! But out of me, my ex and her new bf, I run laps around them both as far as being responsible is concerned… I work (a lot!!), I take care of my body and keep as active as possible, I’m careful of what I put into my body food/drink wise, I help anybody who needs it if they simply treat me with respect when asking for help and don’t just expect me to do things for them (so basically if they respectfully ask me to help them, then yeah I’m there for them 100%… BUT if they expect me to help them, and get mad at me if I don’t, orrr if they demand that I help them, then no I won’t help anybody who can’t at least treat me with respect when I’m doing them a favour yk?)
Where as her new BF does cocaine every single day, he gets drunk every single night (usually), they both only eat takeaways and leftover takeaways each night, neither of them work (they both easily could do if they wanted, but they just choose not to ffs), and their home is absolutely trashed with dirty clothes all over the apartment, cat piss on the floor that hasn’t been cleaned up in weeks probably, drug paraphernalia all over the house, and so much more crap too… I’m not perfect at alllll, but I’m a LOT more responsible and willing to change myself however needed for this baby than both of them are combined…
I can tell them my ex truly is trying to sort her life out now that she’s pregnant though, which I respect a lot to say how badly she treated her body in the past! She still has a longggg way to go ofc, but she knows that she needs to sort her body out in order for the baby to be healthy… And that if this baby is mine especially, then I’m going to step tf up and do everything I possibly can do for my kid (if it is mine ofc..), and if it’s not mine, then I’ll help out if it’s an emergency or if the kid is in danger or anything like that, as I obviously don’t want the baby to be hurt I’m any way you know..? But as far as the day to day side of things are concerned, then they’re on their own for that. And she understood that too luckily (which I was surprised by ngl!!)
So as I said, I’m currently just waiting on her to make this appointment to see if it’s mine or her ex’s baby… I can’t do anything until then I don’t think? I’m just currently trying to make a plan for if it is my baby, and wtf I’m going to do to help provide for him/her![]()
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Sean2001 wrote:
Giving the benefit of the doubt that this is not a huge wind-up, the situation described here is seriously messed up.
Pre-natal paternity testing is apparently possible without risk as it compares genetic markers in the mothers blood with DNA from the possible father. I don't know how much it costs in the UK or if there are specific circumstances in which you can get it done without charge, for example on the NHS.
One way of another, if the mother to be wants to keep the baby, her situation will need to change. It is deeply irresponsible to try to bring up a baby in an environment in which her partner is more interested in alcohol and snorting coke! One way or another, she needs to get rid of him. If she is not inclined to get rid of him herself, and quickly, you can call Children and Young People's Services, part of Social Services run by your local council. You can choose whether to disclose your identity or remain anonymous. The first thing they are likely to do is insist that she splits with him.
Then, if you are the biological father, and if both you and she are willing, there may be a role for you in being the father the baby grows up with. If CYPS get involved, they will also be likely to insist that there are also older, more experienced and stable adults to make sure the baby has a stable environment. If that cannot be provided, the baby would have to be taken into care. Is there anyone else stable in her life? What sort of people are her parents? This could work out OK for the baby if they are responsible people who will also support her.
Sean2001 wrote:
Giving the benefit of the doubt that this is not a huge wind-up, the situation described here is seriously messed up.
Pre-natal paternity testing is apparently possible without risk as it compares genetic markers in the mothers blood with DNA from the possible father. I don't know how much it costs in the UK or if there are specific circumstances in which you can get it done without charge, for example on the NHS.
One way of another, if the mother to be wants to keep the baby, her situation will need to change. It is deeply irresponsible to try to bring up a baby in an environment in which her partner is more interested in alcohol and snorting coke! One way or another, she needs to get rid of him. If she is not inclined to get rid of him herself, and quickly, you can call Children and Young People's Services, part of Social Services run by your local council. You can choose whether to disclose your identity or remain anonymous. The first thing they are likely to do is insist that she splits with him.
Then, if you are the biological father, and if both you and she are willing, there may be a role for you in being the father the baby grows up with. If CYPS get involved, they will also be likely to insist that there are also older, more experienced and stable adults to make sure the baby has a stable environment. If that cannot be provided, the baby would have to be taken into care. Is there anyone else stable in her life? What sort of people are her parents? This could work out OK for the baby if they are responsible people who will also support her.
Eilae wrote:
TL:DR
I’d be offended if I thought any of this wasn’t just some old pervert’s make believe