Well from a gay boy's perspective ... the act itself doesn't last very long in the grand scheme of things. I haven't set a stop watch ever and don't intend to, but the experience itself includes the acts leading up to the actual sex and preparing and getting ready is all part of that experience. I'm sure its the same with girls too. Its about the journey and not just the destination, but the actual insertion inside doesn't last a marathon's duration, at least in my case, but it sure does feel good for both parties! That's what it should be all about!
How long are you supposed to last?
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Gabraham247 wrote:
Fair enough. And by an hour I guess I meant total. Foreplay included. I agree that you don't want sex lasting too short or too long. That makes sense. Not sure that helps the OP or not. But its an honest and accurate answer.
theletters wrote:
okay so it depends but i take longer on average to have sex, probably at least 30-40 minutes. but masturbating is 10 minutes maximum usually.
Which I think everyone agrees is probably too long. With more foreplay or feeling less nervous about it, that might be something that helps him to a more enjoyable length of time
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I always thought girls wanted 30 mins to an hour. Girls I know get mad if it's less than 15 mins.
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555 wrote:
I always thought girls wanted 30 mins to an hour. Girls I know get mad if it's less than 15 mins.
I never knew a whole lot of teenagers who had the time...nor the privacy to often have sex for an hour. So when you say "girls say blah blah blah" or the same with boys...just consider the source.
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BlackParadePixie wrote:
Not everyone is always completely honest when it comes to discussing sexual things.
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Kara Zor-El wrote:
BlackParadePixie wrote:
Not everyone is always completely honest when it comes to discussing sexual things.
True! But we can weigh ALL sources together and come to our own conclusion. I mean there are certain people on TH that I feel I can trust a bit. If I didn't I would leave. Or just play boys vs girls only
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I honestly think the reason i take so long with other people is anxiety. I get stressed easily due to an anxiety condition, so I think any sex acts for me are harder to finish because of nerves. Idk tho.
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Its like i have sexual anxiety, but only when it comes to the actual act of sex or whatever. I can masturbate just fine tho
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theletters wrote:
Its like i have sexual anxiety, but only when it comes to the actual act of sex or whatever. I can masturbate just fine tho
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10 to 15 minutes on first round, longer after that
if you're having trouble try not masturbating that day or even the day before having sex. maybe try not worrying as much about satisfying your partner during intercourse, they are other ways for you to give her an orgasm afterward. -
You are 100% correct!! That's what I do - skip masturbating the night before. We both do. Makes the sex so much better.Somewhat hyper
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For me, it varies. Sometimes I'll last only a couple of minutes even though I'm trying to last longer, and other times I'll last 15-20 minutes without even trying. Which one usually seems to depend on how horny I am when I start.
And I'd think that some people (both guys and girls) would want sex that lasts for a while, at least part of the time. To borrow a line from the movie Bohemian Rhapsody, "I pity your wife if you think 6 minutes is a long time." -
Gabraham247 wrote:
BlackParadePixie wrote:
Gabraham247 wrote:
A typical girl can last forever
BlackParadePixie wrote:
Gabraham247 wrote:
I do have one friend who complains about her bf taking too long. A very unusual complaint from a teen girl lol.
In reality and in my limited experience, starting when foreplay ends, teenage guys seldom last more than 10 minutes, but often they'll want to go again in a half-hour. But I know from masturbation I can go for a couple of hours and so can my most of my girlfriends, IF I have that much free time to spare.
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I like a guy to last 10
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Amy15Canada wrote:
I like a guy to last 10
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Minutes loll
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Penelope wrote:
Amy15Canada wrote:
I like a guy to last 10
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then 10 mins is like 60000 jiffies lol
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