Ive kinda felt insecure about this myself since it takes me a long time to get off when im with someone. But if your having sex or doing anything with a partner, does it take longer or shorter to get off compared to masturbation?
How long are you supposed to last?
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how long does it usually take you?
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okay so it depends but i take longer on average to have sex, probably at least 30-40 minutes. but masturbating is 10 minutes maximum usually.
bowieme wrote:
how long does it usually take you?
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like 30-40 minutes of intercourse or of everything?
theletters wrote:
okay so it depends but i take longer on average to have sex, probably at least 30-40 minutes. but masturbating is 10 minutes maximum usually.bowieme wrote:
how long does it usually take you?
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are we taking with a guy? girl? both??
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It depends the average is said to be about 5 minutes
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Well it sounds like you'll make your partner very happy if you can last that long. Masturbating puts you in total control so that can last however long you want. With a partner it can be more difficult, sometimes I last an embarrassing short time, sometimes long enough for both of us to be happy. He has much better control than I do
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maseb wrote:
Well it sounds like you'll make your partner very happy if you can last that long.
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Everybodys different
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I have heard that the mire fourplay the longer the sex will last
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Not true
Aaronlsn02 wrote:
I have heard that the mire fourplay the longer the sex will last
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ok just what I heard havent had sex myself
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First off, its different for girls and boys. A typical girl can last forever and potentially have multiple orgasms. So duration usually is up to the guy. Foreplay typically helps the girl get in the mood and will definitely add to the OVERALL sexual activity duration, but it won't add time to how long the guy takes to cum. In fact, if anything it could decrease it ever so slightly by getting him too aroused and cumming too soon. But foreplay is great. Definitely do it. And even if the guy cums too soon, you can go again after reloading. And if you last a long time that's not terrible. Although I do have one friend who complains about her bf taking too long. A very unusual complaint from a teen girl lol.
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ummmm no.
Gabraham247 wrote:
A typical girl can last forever
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not really...if he is taking so long to where she is not able to stay wet for that duration of time, then it is a problem.
Gabraham247 wrote:
I do have one friend who complains about her bf taking too long. A very unusual complaint from a teen girl lol.
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I mean, im not writing an actual medical dictionary. I tried to keep it brief. In comparison to the typical teen boy, a girl can last forever in comparison. And I did use the words "typical girl" on purpose. There are girls who can't orgasm or can't get wet. But the TYPICAL girl can last an hour. Easy. Am I not right???
BlackParadePixie wrote:
ummmm no.Gabraham247 wrote:
A typical girl can last forever
Exactly. That's why my friend calls it a problem. Plus she just gets tired and bored. But I stand by what I said ... It's an unusual complaint ... If anything, most girls complain about guys who don't last enough ... Not too long. Am I wrong???BlackParadePixie wrote:
not really...if he is taking so long to where she is not able to stay wet for that duration of time, then it is a problem.Gabraham247 wrote:
I do have one friend who complains about her bf taking too long. A very unusual complaint from a teen girl lol.
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No...I don't think the typical girl can last that long.
Gabraham247 wrote:
I mean, im not writing an actual medical dictionary. I tried to keep it brief. In comparison to the typical teen boy, a girl can last forever in comparison. And I did use the words "typical girl" on purpose. There are girls who can't orgasm or can't get wet. But the TYPICAL girl can last an hour. Easy. Am I not right???
Exactly. That's why my friend calls it a problem. Plus she just gets tired and bored. But I stand by what I said ... It's an unusual complaint ... If anything, most girls complain about guys who don't last enough ... Not too long. Am I wrong???
And as far as lasting too long being an odd complaint, no I don't think it is if the sex is not enjoyable. There is a happy medium between sex that ends too quickly and goes on for far too long...what that is...takes practice and esperience to figure out. -
Fair enough. And by an hour I guess I meant total. Foreplay included. I agree that you don't want sex lasting too short or too long. That makes sense. Not sure that helps the OP or not. But its an honest and accurate answer.
BlackParadePixie wrote:
No...I don't think the typical girl can last that long.And as far as lasting too long being an odd complaint, no I don't think it is if the sex is not enjoyable. There is a happy medium between sex that ends too quickly and goes on for far too long...what that is...takes practice and esperience to figure out.
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well that's different
Gabraham247 wrote:
Fair enough. And by an hour I guess I meant total. Foreplay included. I agree that you don't want sex lasting too short or too long. That makes sense. Not sure that helps the OP or not. But its an honest and accurate answer.
...you can have foreplay for like 55 minutes and then fuck for 5 and it could still be better than fucking for 30-40 minutes.
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agree with this, very true
BlackParadePixie wrote:
well that's differentGabraham247 wrote:
Fair enough. And by an hour I guess I meant total. Foreplay included. I agree that you don't want sex lasting too short or too long. That makes sense. Not sure that helps the OP or not. But its an honest and accurate answer.
...you can have foreplay for like 55 minutes and then fuck for 5 and it could still be better than fucking for 30-40 minutes.
