Ayo?

theletters · Mar 13th 2023, 4:13pm

I know this guy from school and hes super hot. I thought he was out of my league. He texted me last night at 10pm asking if i wanted to "link up" on wednesday night at his house. I barely know him, but I feel like hes into me if hes asking me this. But when I asked him why he only said he wants to play some video games and study for a school project. And he gave me no other signs hes into me

Its spring break tho, and I honestly have no idea what he wants to do. But i really hope he wants to do something, maybe we can kiss or do something sexual. Are there any ways to know before i go over there?

bowieme · Mar 13th 2023, 4:56pm

i think you gotta go over there to see if he likes you but don’t get your hopes up after all playing video games is still fun even without kissing and having sex lol

maseb · Mar 13th 2023, 5:44pm

Go and play it by ear. Don't expect anything sexual, maybe it will just be a good time that could lead to more in the future. Hope it works out for you

stom · Mar 13th 2023, 7:57pm

You can only find out if you go there

Jake445 · Mar 13th 2023, 10:04pm

Sounds like he wants to be your friend, maybe more! But if you go into it expecting 'just friends' you won't be disappointed.

Gabraham247 · Mar 14th 2023, 12:08am

Nope. No way of knowing unless you have a lie detector. But even if you have one, which I doubt, that would be creepy af to use!

Sometimes you just have to play the game and find out on your own. I imagine it's gotta be super awkward sometimes for gay and bi people when the only invite you get is to "link up" and "play video games and study for a school project". But that happens to straight people who link up and study together too I guess. Heck even sometimes actual real dates there's no sure things. Go and find out. Sometimes not knowing is more fun anyway meh.

Durango · Mar 14th 2023, 1:23am

I have to agree with the idea that there's really no way of knowing unless you go over there. Try it. Worst case, you've got a new friend. Best case, well....

Laws · Mar 15th 2023, 3:26am

Maybe just play it by ear and see how it goes. (Also, you might want to keep a condom in your pocket just in case, you never know what might happen!)

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