They don't. I'm attracted to quiet and nicer guys. Don't put everyone into the same category or mindset, please

Diplomatic version: You've just been unlucky. I too like nice guys, seems like you've just met some girls who ain't worth your time. Don't lose hope, just keep trying, and you'll meet someone who'll appreciate you.

I know it sometimes feels like that, that the louder and more confident types of people (not just guys, girls too) are more popular and more ‘successful’ when it comes to relationships, and if you’re not like that, it can feel hard. But there are lots of girls who like quiet guys (and vice versa, I think). You just need to find the right person.

It's kinda like dogshit. When you see one, you don't hang around in that spot, you move on until you find the cherry.

Just be yourself

1. Be yourself. 2. Keep asking. It's law of averages. If you keep asking, eventually someone will say yes, but if you stop asking nobody will say yes. 3. Maybe ask for cell numbers, and not dates. A girl will nearly always give out her #. Once you start messaging each other and building a decent relationship, then you can ask her out. 4. Maybe have your friends set you up. They already know and accept you and your niceness and might know a girl who also likes nice guys as opposed to assholes.

That’s not always true, some girls like confident guys, some like quite shy ones

dont give up,maybe ask a girl.if she would like to study with you a few times and build up to asking her out, just be yourself around her, dont try to be someone your not

1) They don't always. You just haven't asked out enough girls yet. 2) Girls (and women) are attracted to confidence. Even if you don't feel confident, you can appear you are by standing up straight with your shoulders back, and making eye contact while talking. Just those two things go a LONG way. The real confidence will come with practice, like anything else. 3) You need to be yourself, mostly. You should be kind, gentle, and loving...but NOT nice! Nice translates to PASSIVE & subservient, and healthy women don't want that in a guy. They want an ASSERTIVE leader who knows what he wants and how to give her what she needs. 4) Just on a practical level, I respectfully disagree with those who've said you should just get her number and get to know her on a screen. I learned the hard way that that doesn't work. My crush gave me her number and we chatted back and forth; meanwhile another guy had asked her out and they were really hitting it off and got into a committed relationship, all while I'm looking at her emoticons. You have to man up and go old-fashioned. Talking in person is ALWAYS better. Don't think of a date as this big huge scary commitment. It's just going out with a girl you like and seeing if you're compatible. It's not a relationship (yet ). And keep in mind that she's at least as nervous as you, probably more so. Hope that helps, bud!

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