How to answer a girl who asked me out I'm not interested in her ?

Starlord · Apr 9th 2023, 6:30pm

I guess it's all in the title lol
A girl has asked me out but I'm already taken, I have a boyfriend but no one knows (except my best friends)
So for every one else I'm single and straight, as I had 2 gf before
I dont know how to answer her, I dont want to hurt her :?:

BlackParadePixie · Apr 9th 2023, 6:37pm

just tell her you're involved with someone else

CayceDouble · Apr 9th 2023, 6:43pm

Tell her that you're flattered but you don't want to be involved (keep that part vague) right now

Starlord · Apr 9th 2023, 7:31pm

BlackParadePixie wrote:

just tell her you're involved with someone else

I bet she will ask with who that's the issue XD

BlackParadePixie · Apr 9th 2023, 7:47pm

Starlord wrote:

I bet she will ask with who that's the issue XD

why does it matter?

Penelope · Apr 9th 2023, 9:15pm

Just tell her your with someone there’s no need to go into detail, or just tell her you’re not into girls, probably better than thinking she had a chance m better than leading her on, not saying you are doing that

BJade · Apr 9th 2023, 11:14pm

Tell her your not looking for a relationship at the moment

HannahW · Apr 9th 2023, 11:18pm

BJade wrote:

Tell her your not looking for a relationship at the moment

This. Tell her you’re flattered but you’re not interested in a relationship right now. I don’t think you have to tell her anything else.

collin13 · Apr 9th 2023, 11:51pm

What the ladies said directly above. You are not looking for a relationship. Thanks. You don't have to expand upon it either.

terra · Apr 10th 2023, 1:01am

Unless you’re not out just be nice and say thanks but really interested someone else

corey_stratton · Apr 10th 2023, 12:28pm

works for me

k8tie · Apr 10th 2023, 3:05pm

corey_stratton wrote:

works for me

Perfect

Starlord · Apr 12th 2023, 11:56pm

corey_stratton wrote:

works for me

Not a chance I ever wear that

Kara Zor-El · Apr 13th 2023, 3:48pm

yep, like others suggested, tell her you're flattered but not interested in a relationship.
It's the truth.

Moonshae · Aug 10th 2023, 5:30am

Be honest that you are with someone.

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