Hi, I have just started to ejaculate, when I do my penis goes back limp like it goes to sleep whereas when I have a dry orgasm it stays hard or at least semi hard and I can continue jacking almost immediately, is this normal ?
Limp after ejaculation
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Yup. Same thing happened to me after I started making jizz. It's the refractory period. Ya go soft after an orgasm and the body needs to recharge.
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When I first read that I thought I'd need to tell you to calm down if masturbating was giving you a limp
From what I know that's pretty common, or always happens (im sure boys will know better )
I think it's to do with replenish ejaculate, or maybe an evolution thing to stop one dominant male impregnating all females in a group very quickly (which wouldn't be good for genetic diversity)
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Yes, that's normal. As mentioned in one of the other threads it seems to ejaculation, rather than orgasm, that triggers the refractory period where you need to take a break.
If this makes it seem like the fun is over a bit too soon, you may want to learn to edge, i.e. get close to cumming then, before the point of no return, back off a little by slowing/stopping stimulation, then approach that point again. Practice so you can spend quite some time at the point of being ready to cum at any moment without actually doing so. Not only does is that feeling good itself, when you do decide it is time to cum, the orgasm will be more intense.
It doesn't matter if you don't master that right away. You may need to just do it normally a few times and make sure you are really familiar with the sensations at each stage so you learn what the clostest is you can get before going over the edge. -
We all go through it. Some boys seem to like the fact that they can now ejaculate so going soft doesn't matter to them. Some miss that they can remain hard and have another dry orgasm right away.
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Welcome to puberty
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It’s normal, you’re all okay
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Occasionally I can stay hard after cumming. It's pretty rare tho. I almost always go limp. Idk if it's cuz I'm super horny when I can stay hard or not?
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I usually go limp, not immediately but shortly after cuming
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I am pretty sure it's normal! No worries.
You can still play with it.
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BJade wrote:
When I first read that I thought I'd need to tell you to calm down if masturbating was giving you a limp
From what I know that's pretty common, or always happens (im sure boys will know better )
I think it's to do with replenish ejaculate, or maybe an evolution thing to stop one dominant male impregnating all females in a group very quickly (which wouldn't be good for genetic diversity)
your comment has me laughing. Live for today -
Actually not really, when I ejaculate and it goes limp it makes me wanna stop, like the hornyness is going away
Kara Zor-El wrote:
You can still play with it.
When I have dry orgasm I can still continue several minutes -
When I cum, it all comes out, but then like 30 secs later, I get this thick stuff come out. its almost wormy. When it comes out it feels ticklish and its super sticky, more than the cum was. I suppose it is still cum. I get the feeling its a higher concentration of sperm or something.
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eh, what do i know?
Starlord wrote:
Actually not really, when I ejaculate and it goes limp it makes me wanna stop, like the hornyness is going awayWhen I have dry orgasm I can still continue several minutesKara Zor-El wrote:
You can still play with it.
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Oh yes, it's normal. with dry orgasms it is possible to remain hard and continue to masturbate (often the desire and arousal also decrease). On the other hand, when the orgasm is with sperm it is more difficult to remain hard. you have to be very excited and not stop but continue masturbating; but even in this case it is not certain that the erection will return immediately. It is what is called the refractory period.
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But you've been there for a while so you read a lot of stuff about boys
Kara Zor-El wrote:
eh, what do i know?Starlord wrote:
Actually not really, when I ejaculate and it goes limp it makes me wanna stop, like the hornyness is going awayWhen I have dry orgasm I can still continue several minutesKara Zor-El wrote:
You can still play with it.
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regretfully
Starlord wrote:
But you've been there for a while so you read a lot of stuff about boysKara Zor-El wrote:
eh, what do i know?Starlord wrote:
Actually not really, when I ejaculate and it goes limp it makes me wanna stop, like the hornyness is going awayWhen I have dry orgasm I can still continue several minutesKara Zor-El wrote:
You can still play with it.
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You wish you didn't know ?
Kara Zor-El wrote:
regretfullyStarlord wrote:
But you've been there for a while so you read a lot of stuff about boysKara Zor-El wrote:
eh, what do i know?Starlord wrote:
Actually not really, when I ejaculate and it goes limp it makes me wanna stop, like the hornyness is going awayWhen I have dry orgasm I can still continue several minutesKara Zor-El wrote:
You can still play with it.
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like that for me… also i usually have to pee after as well
Starlord wrote:
Hi, I have just started to ejaculate, when I do my penis goes back limp like it goes to sleep whereas when I have a dry orgasm it stays hard or at least semi hard and I can continue jacking almost immediately, is this normal ?
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