Is body count important to you?

I agree with the use of the words "body count" it sounds like something from the Gaza strip or a pandemic - we know what you mean though lol

doesn't matter to me for the most part. i'm more worried about the person than their past

No it makes no difference to me

IMHO, it wouldn't make much of a difference who they had been with. It's the person that counts. Should you aske for a personal resumé before having a relationship with someone?

No but if they change gf every 2 weeks like a guy I know did in year 7, I guess I wouldn't trust them for a serious relationship

No it’s not important, as long as you have a good relationship with your sex partner.

I wouldn’t want to be with someone that has had lot of different girls

For me I dont feel sex should be a number contest

It in itself is not a competition. If i was looking for a long term thing, I might be a bit scared that someone with a high count might not want to stick around

The word does sound more like number of people murdered than had sex with but, assuming the latter, it could be a hint, depending on what you want. If you're after sex then someone who has had sex with lots of people is presumably very comfortable with it and may be more skilled than someone who has had less sex, so sex may be more natural or better with them. if you're looking to start a relationship, surely you would wonder if someone who has already had sex with lots of people really wants a relationship or just enjoys sex. In my opionion, there is nothing wrong with having sex for fun but a relationship is more work and you hope the other person is as serious as you are. That doesn't mean I would avoid someone who has had lots of sex, but maybe just try to be really tuned into where things are going as a couple.

I feel like it has to change as you get older because right now yeah I think it matters a lot

Not at all

Something as such is only important to shallow people.

which is shallow?

The person who just sleeps with people to be a notch on their bed post. Or the person who doesn't want to be played by a player

The notch on the bed post types.

"Body count' is a bad way to talk about this, but for what the OP means, yes, it would be important to me I would want to be special not one of a lot of people.

Luckily I don’t have to think about this just yet