Are you into military-type computer games? You can approach the problem like one. First, you do some reconnaisance. What do the girl likes? Is she open to a possible relationship? Are you her type? Next, plan some fun activity based on the info you gathered. Finally, implement. If you're nervous doing it face to face, extend your invitation with the help of technology like SMS, phones, or chat. NEVER use another guy as a go between.

Definately don't ask on the spot becasue some girls don't like turning guys down and if she doesn't actually wanna be with you it won't last long

Girls have types or characteristics of fellows they want to go out with. Hear about tall, dark, and handsome? That's one type. Best way to find out is by checking out the father. If your girl adores her father, you've already got some points if you share similar characterisitcs. If she hates him, well, you know what to do.

Hope this helps and good luck.

hey complement her frist then ask her out

hm.... I like bluntness myself... and also I like to vaguely know the guy as well....

I like polite guys, guys that don't make fun of people. Someone who would respect me but also be in to stuff [if you know what i mean]. But just compliment her, talk to her, get to know her, than see if she feels the same way as you do. But you should defffff know if she doesn't like you right away, you will get a vibe, trust me :]

okay first of all, dont ever ask someone else to ask her out for you becuase then i dont think you'll ever have a chance secondly ask her out when she's alone third dont spread it around that you like that girl becuase then she'll be embrassed and i dont think that's a good thing & last but not least show her that you care and respect other people girls and boys! be kind!

alsou wrote:

okay first of all, dont ever ask someone else to ask her out for you becuase then i dont think you'll ever have a chance secondly ask her out when she's alone third dont spread it around that you like that girl becuase then she'll be embrassed and i dont think that's a good thing & last but not least show her that you care and respect other people girls and boys! be kind!

^this

mellow wrote:

^this

:D:D::o:o

alsou wrote:

:D:D::o:o

If I was male and wanted to ask a girl out I would ask her if she wanted to go to the cinema. That will let her know you are interested so take it from there.

It is not a good idea to invite her to your place to start off with - a boy did that to me and I was nearly sick with nerves.

I am telling you this from a girl's point of view.

hmmmmmmmmm, well my cousin who is a god of these things :D. he says a good way to ask a girl out (im gonna try this) is by saying.

theoreticaly would u ever date me.
and if she says yes then say ok then will u go out with me. if she says no thn u should ditch it. and if she says y are u asking me this u ssay cos im interested. and if she says are u asking me out u can say ye kinda. i mean tbh what do u have to lose.

yea cause if doesnt work you can always go and find someone else or just work on your women skills

mellow wrote:

i agree a guy asked me out and i said no because i was not intrested but he kept buging me and finally gave up coz i kept saying no!

i can never say to a girl "wanna get a coffee?" cus i hate coffee and it makes me throw up