Vent: Girls Suck

    • Vent: Girls Suck

      so ive come to the conclusion that girls suck and love isnt reachable for everyone. love thats true and passionate and meaningful never really happens it may feel like it and seem like it but you can never truely love someone for all they are. i thought i did i really did i gave her my all my everything i literally suffered and practially destroyed myself to get this girl and now that i finally have her and thought i could relax and be happy for awhile. i was wrong it was nothing like i thought it would be its like shes preventing me from loving her she says she loves me and wants to be with me forever but whatever theres no way she could love me as much as i love/loved her theres no way she or anyone could see how i feel or how i think i feel claustrophobic stuck in my head that only i understand and it sucks im sick of love i wish i didn't dont ever suffer for someone who you think you love if you think they will love you the same way back if you do so dont go through hell expecting that somone to be there when you get thought it to care for you. it just dosent happen. i believed it would but it will never so screw it...
      So You Say You Love Her? Then why are you sitting at the computer and not holding her in your arms telling her how much she means to You? Cause I Bet theres another Kid Out There Who's Dieing to Be Where You Are..... I No I Am

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      Don't say all girls suck! Not all of us do!

      And how is giving up the second you have bad luck going to help you find someone who really does love you? Giving up doesn't do any good. Saying "screw it" when life gets hard won't get you anywhere, and it certainly won't help you find someone who does love you!

      Tell your girlfriend how you feel, instead of saying she'll never understand. And how is she pushing you away?

      Last, sit down with her and tell her why it feels like she's pushing you away, and ask what's going on. There might be something going on in her life that is upsetting her, which could explain why she's pushing you away. Try to be understanding no matter what she says.

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      ive been dating her 7 months its not like this is the first time this has happend ive just gotten to the point that what i thought it would be isnt how it is idk if shes pushing me away its just she dosent understand me i seriously put all i have into us and our relationship but when i tell her that she asks why i do such a thing theres nothing goin on in her life she just would rather hang with her friends then me she lies to me about what shes doin today she said she couldnt talk because she was busy or hang out cause her parents wernt home but she just went to hang with her friends the whole day im just sick of what i went through to get the point where i could love her and she could love me back idk i just want someone who can care about me as much as i do them someone who wants to be with me all the time and tells me she loves me and just idk sees the significance
      So You Say You Love Her? Then why are you sitting at the computer and not holding her in your arms telling her how much she means to You? Cause I Bet theres another Kid Out There Who's Dieing to Be Where You Are..... I No I Am

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      i cant talk to her about how i feel thats the part where she pushes me away she seriously just leaves during a conversation if i start to talk about how its wrong between us or you dont love me like you say you do she just says shes goin to bed or has to go
      i just wish i could tell her or ask her that something was wrong i just want to be able to hold her hand once and awhile kiss her when i want too and be with her more but i dont want it unless she does it with love i dont want her to just do it cause i want her to thats not hows its supposed to be she shoulnt keep leading me on like this if she wont ever show me any signs of love i mean what kind of girlfriend dosent let you to kiss her but then can come back 20 min later and just expect one a girlfriend who shrugs your hand off when you hold hers and gets angry when you ask y idk i love her so much and when she was with her other boyfriend she called im all the time and held his hand kissed him and other more sexual stuff that i wont say why dosent she do that to me thats all i want is someone to love me
      So You Say You Love Her? Then why are you sitting at the computer and not holding her in your arms telling her how much she means to You? Cause I Bet theres another Kid Out There Who's Dieing to Be Where You Are..... I No I Am

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      JR wrote:

      i disagree. fallin in love was one of only good and best thing i've ever done. why dont you all hang out?



      I DONT KNOW???? why dont we hang out. she just never wants to she never asks me to go places with her and all we ever do is come to my house and watcha movie or something which gets boring every other suggestion i make she turns down but never offers a better one. i want her to call and "WANT" me do to something with her. i want her to "WANT" me at all
      So You Say You Love Her? Then why are you sitting at the computer and not holding her in your arms telling her how much she means to You? Cause I Bet theres another Kid Out There Who's Dieing to Be Where You Are..... I No I Am

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      She reminds me of someone I knew (and still know, sadly)....

      Anyway, now that I know more of the story, it might be better to just walk away from her. If she isn't willing to put in equal effort, then why should you be trying so hard to make everything work?

      Just walk away, at the very least for a few days, and see where that puts you. :)

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      i dont think ill walk away but i see what you mean ive kinda started doin this but heres the plan i guess

      just basically stop doin all the extra things the little things that you do when you love someone and see if she misses it or notices it

      ive havent called her for 2 days she hasnt called me in like 20 or something i always call her so i wanna see what happens if i dont if she asks me why i dont anymore ill just say that im sick of being the only commited person

      im gunna stop just about everything just to see if shell be worried about me or us or anything

      i can see y i should leave but this isnt that kinda of high school relationship just the way it happend and everything i went though i had alot of time to think about it and stuff its just too long to leave with something like this without tryin to fix it if she has no interest in changing for me then ill leave
      So You Say You Love Her? Then why are you sitting at the computer and not holding her in your arms telling her how much she means to You? Cause I Bet theres another Kid Out There Who's Dieing to Be Where You Are..... I No I Am

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      i wish we could just talk about it but even if she did listen i mean how do you talk about it. how do u talk about the things that you just kinda expect in a relationship like Wanting to be with that person? i mean how do you tell some one they dont love you enough or dont hold your hand enough or idk just things that you expect them to do
      So You Say You Love Her? Then why are you sitting at the computer and not holding her in your arms telling her how much she means to You? Cause I Bet theres another Kid Out There Who's Dieing to Be Where You Are..... I No I Am

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      Seeing if she cares might work, and if she doesn't, I would really, really advise you to walk away.

      And you just sit down with her and say exactly what you said on here. That she doesn't seem to want to spend time with you, that she doesn't seem to care, and she isn't acting like she wants to be around you.

      Ask if its something going on in her life (I know you said it wasn't, but it won't hurt to ask again), and if there is something you could do to try and make things better. (Obviously, don't say this if she doesn't seem to want to make things better).

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      will do thanks for listening this was mostely just a vent and i know all girls dont suck its just that they can make your life suck lol but thanks for listening
      So You Say You Love Her? Then why are you sitting at the computer and not holding her in your arms telling her how much she means to You? Cause I Bet theres another Kid Out There Who's Dieing to Be Where You Are..... I No I Am

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      Starlight822 wrote:

      You're welcome. I know it helps to vent. Been there done that!

      and staroots-

      Some, not all. Some girls just want to make everything a game and torment everyone.


      nope definitely all girls are confusing no matter what .... idc what you say i will never understand woman's mind.
      its like impossible
      your "logic", or lack there of, is incompressible to any man.
      so i just stopped trying to figure it out but damn its annoying

    • Re: Vent: Girls Suck

      Okay, calm down!

      If you want to try and save this relationship then you need to talk about it, not stop calling her to try and provoke a reaction. I think you should ask her why she's been doing these things to you lately and tell her that if there's anything she needs to say to you, she should say it.

      Although if you're more into her than she's into you, you're only going to get more hurt by her in the future and perhaps it would be better for you if you got out of this relationship, it sounds like your head's a bit of a mess and you need to take a break.

      And yeah, don't give up hope entirely on girls in general, there are loads of decent girls out there who'd potentially love to be your girlfriend, maybe you just haven't met them yet... but you've got loads of time to do this.
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