i say if she doesnt like you for who u r then its a sad fact that u 2 shouldnt b together i am not really sure who u r but u shouldnt have to chage the way u act just for someone to like you. im sure theres someone out there for u somewhere. mabye u wont find her yet but someday u will =p

You are boring.
I'm yawning.

Ha, Just kidding.
But I agree with Dan + Brittany...
If shes trying to change you-
Or doesn't like you for who you are;
Then she's not right for you.
you're young!
Use it &' abuse it baby!

well alot of girls are attracted to bad boys because of the danger in it
somthing that you know isnt right or even good for you sometimes is more attractive
i dont really know why exactly but sometimes it just is
kinda like the it feels so bad its good
ya know?

anyways i agree u shouldnt have to change too much to get a girl
its probably for the better that you dont date this girl

well best of luck

i'm still pretty new to the dating stuff too...

maybe it's just a phase or she could be testing you. some girls can be so... wierd:D

Hey, don't hate on the girls.
You're the weird one :]

You're all confused. Here's how it is:

Girls are crazy weirdos.
Boys are stupid lunks.

this is absolutely 100% true
girls are crazy, unpredictable, emotional creatures
and boys are just testosterone driven horn dogs lol

To an extent, this is indeed true. BUT, no doubt if there are characteristics about you that people dont like, you WILL have to change.
You hang around new people, you WILL change. If you know this girl well enough, you will develop a sense of her interestes, or what makes her laugh, and you will adjust your lifestyle/habbits/personality you suit her. There is very little you can do because most of it will be a sub-conscience level and happen very slowly over the course of knowing her.

With that said, Dan was right in the fact that you shouldnt change anything about you so suddenly like that, but if she is not interested in you right now, I would just say forget it. As hard as it may be (know from experience) you will probably be much better off without someone like that in your life. Unless you can slowly adapt to her likings (ie slowly get to know her better over a period of time)

~Ren

"Every girlfriend I've had wanted me to change something about myself. The only thing I did change was my girlfriend."

flirt with her. if u cant be a badboy from the heart be one from the mind. badboys are all about the booty, the sex, the girls. dont be so shy with her, intimidating guys are intimidating guys because they have the straight-forwardness and mind-speaking-ability that 'boring' guys dont have.

perfectly put...

truthfull speaking,
girls like to be with "bad boys" and guys wid "bad girls"
but its just a state of the mind or the attitude...
you don't need to be a bully, or evil to be that "bad boy"
just be flirtatious...
find out wt turns her on, and use it oto ur benefit...

and if all else fails, be real bad show her the finger tht counts ,,|,, and ask her, is that being bad enough fr her
(am just kidding)

k i dont know how to help you become less boring..but i will say the reason girls...or at least I personally like bad boys is because they're more of a challenge. I mean a nice guy won't excite me, surprise me, or exhilerate me. I like a guy who knows how to take control, how to turn me on and get me excited and also one who keeps me on my toes and is a challenge to hold his attention. if he likes me too much, is too nice, or too easy to please ill just get bored and move on. But a guy that is a little indifferent to me, doesnt show his likes me TOO much..but enough, drives me crazy and leaves me wanting more. so be a little bad, a little sarcastic or cynical, unpredictable, impulsive, and rebellious, it's totally sexy.

see i am different from most girls in that i like nice guys
i dont know really i've just never been drawn to the bad boy persona
i like guys who will treat me totally respectfully, will hold the door, and basically cater to me
i don't want to be dating a jerk, i'm self-concious enough as it is! lol
i don't like mama's boys but i don't like badasses either
i like just sweet guys who are a happy medium between the two extremes
although a little danger and excitement is nice sometimes i prefer a solid relationship without all the ups and downs and what not

You need to try surprising her with things...

Randomly buy her a bunch of flowers (flowers for no reason make a girl feel wooooooo)

Be impulsive

When you are sitting talking to her, cup her face and kiss her and then go back to what you are doing.

omg that's mean... If she doesn't like you the way u are... so..NEXT
I know there is a special girl 4 you that like you the way you are..
by the way : don't EVER change ur personality for a person dat doesnt like u the way u are..