you should talk to him about it, ask him its its his first time or not, and that u arent ready

well next time he goes for it tell him you need to talk to him
If your not ready, dont give in.

Hmm..

I fingered my girlfriend for the first time on our little oe month anniverssary type thing...we werent really celebrating but that was the day. We were hanging out at a baseball game [neither of us really watch it...but she gets free tickets] And we were in an empty section of the stands. She was just sitting in my lap under a blanket cuz she was cold. It was the end of the game and the fireworks came on, so now 'fireworks' is a big inside joke. Shes very quiet and shy, so I was asking her like every 10 seconds if she was ok with everything and if it felt good...and I still do that. She wasn't afraid, and we really trusted each other so it wasn't a problem...and she really wanted it. After the fireworks ended [they're usually 10-15 minutes] we started getting ready to go..I just hugged her and told her I love her. She was so happy the rest of that night...

The biggest thing is probably whether or not you want it, and if you trust your boyfriend. Me and my girlfriend have no experience except each other, so thats not really a problem.
The next thing is just communication, we constantly ask each other if things are ok and if were comfortable, and what we want and what feels good. When she has her peiod she just tells me, its not a big deal. Just talk and be more open.

just do it.
it's not like scary or w/e like alot people think.

period=gross
any other time=OK

If you trust him, don't be afraid hon'

If your not ready then don't go any further or do anything that you will regret and just talk to your boyfriend about your feelings.

How long have you guys been going out?

Tbh this kinda thing put me back from having a relationship with my ex. I'm confident but found it hard to too

seriously, just go for it.
i dont understand why so many people
feel the need to make their first time
"special". i just dont understand it.
chances are you wont stay with him
forever, you'll have sex with other guys.
just do it!

Yeah, well some people just have some special expectations. I used to be one of them, but now I really don't care about it anymore.

So, about your problem... I have this weird boob-thing. It's like a phobia. I hate it when guys touch my boobs because it's just the weirdest feeling for me ever. lol Don't ask. I'm scared of what they might think. So I told this guy and he was okay with it. He just stayed away. I did everything for fun, friends with benefits. But don't be scared. It's not a big deal or something to be scared of.