My boyfriend never waits for me after school. He gets his stuff from his locker and goes to the bus. I'm a car rider so I don't see him in the bus lobby. It would take him an extra minute or less to wait for me and walk with me to where I get picked up. He would still make it to his bus in PLENTY of time. I never really cared until I saw one of my friends with her boyfriend today and he walked her to where she gets picked up. He gave her a quick kiss and walked to where the buses are. Is it stupid and naive for me to want him to wait for me so we can say goodbye at the end of the day or should he actually be waiting for me? It's not something I would break up with him for or anything like that; it would just be nice to be able to say goodbye to him since we only have 1 class together so we don't see each other much except in that class and in lunch.
Should he wait?
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Like MissV said, tell him to wait if you want. But if I were him I would wait just because that's the good thing to do , and can lead to more fun.
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Communication.
Just be cool about it, be like "Hey!!! How about you wait for me at the end of the day so I can see my cutie leave and can have my goodbye kiss, what are you too good for me now? :wink:"
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Ejayrazz wrote:
Communication.
Just be cool about it, be like "Hey!!! How about you wait for me at the end of the day so I can see my cutie leave and can have my goodbye kiss, what are you too good for me now? :wink:"
Should work. =]
Yup, what he said. And if it doesn't work, don't let it bother you too much.[CENTER]
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Hmm..I wait for my girlfriend..or more like she waits for me, but whatever. We hug and say goodbye, its kool. We don't normally kiss in school though.
Just ask him, it shouldn't be a big deal. Its nice to do stuff like that, but don't make it too much of a big deal either. -
If you want him to wait you should talk to him about it. He might not have even thought about it. On the other hand he might have wanted to, but was afraid you would think he was getting clingy if he did. :p Talk to him about it.
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Personally, I waited when I had a gf, but then again people accused me of being a bit clingy, and I guess I was. If you want him to wait, just tell him. He could be a typical guy who just never thought of that.[LEFT] [FONT=Verdana,Geneva,Arial,Helvetica][SIZE=2][FONT=Verdana,Geneva,Arial,Helvetica][SIZE=2]I will not say: do not weep; for not all tears are an evil.[/SIZE][/FONT][/SIZE][/FONT] [/LEFT]
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Definitely just ask him and if he says no, don't let it get to you. You will spend enough time together
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Im sorry but its not compulsery that he has to wait for you after school. Being together all the time can be suffercating and maybe he just wants to enjoy his trip home.The Seven Deadly Sins:
Lust, Gluttony, Greed, Sloath, Wrath, Envy, Pride.
We're guilty of them all. O well
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Ejayrazz wrote:
Communication.
Man you play that card a lot.
It's really no big deal. He'll do it if he feels like it. Forcing it will only strain the relationship.[CENTER][SIZE="7"]AKA E. Nygma[/SIZE][/CENTER] -
^ i notice that too every post i see its "talk to him/her" "communication" "just talk" its just blahThe Seven Deadly Sins:
Lust, Gluttony, Greed, Sloath, Wrath, Envy, Pride.
We're guilty of them all. O well looks like we're all going to hell! (:eek:=you) -
Not all problems are solved that way. God sometimes you want to shut someone up![CENTER][SIZE="7"]AKA E. Nygma[/SIZE][/CENTER]
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lol i know that feelingThe Seven Deadly Sins:
Lust, Gluttony, Greed, Sloath, Wrath, Envy, Pride.
We're guilty of them all. O well looks like we're all going to hell! (:eek:=you) -
yep. Anyway on topic...[CENTER][SIZE="7"]AKA E. Nygma[/SIZE][/CENTER]
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Mental Maelstrom wrote:
Man you play that card a lot.
It's really no big deal. He'll do it if he feels like it. Forcing it will only strain the relationship.
Because this card will solve many problems, communication is extremely important in a relationship, without it, the foundation crumbles, along with honesty and loyalty.
And my advice is much more in-depth than 'just talk to them', I usually explain how to do so and why, just telling someone to 'talk to him' isn't too helpful, hence why my advice are paragraphs, not pecky sentences.
In fact, your advice was redundant, explaining 'if he didn't want to do it, he doesn't have to'...Yeah....we know that, we just do not know IF HE WANTS TO, the entire ordeal could be a misunderstanding..and guess what? It was. -
Ejay, most times actions speak louder than words. Don't misconstrue that.
I know I noticed my redundancy. I need to work on that.[CENTER][SIZE="7"]AKA E. Nygma[/SIZE][/CENTER] -
No no no, what you said was redundant, you as a person is not redundant. Don't confuse the two, I wouldn't insult you, I usually enjoy what you have to say. :wink: -
That was what I meant. My statement was redundant and I need to make sure I am not redundant when I say what I want to.[CENTER][SIZE="7"]AKA E. Nygma[/SIZE][/CENTER]
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