Okay, so I was at this party on the weekend, and since I was friends with the girl throwing the party I was actually staying over night so I didn't have to walk home drunk. She let me stay in her bed cause she was gonna sleep in her parents room since she didn't want anyone in there. So around 1:45 the party is still going on, but since I started drinking early, and the fact that I was very tired and had to work the next morning (and I was out of beer) I decided to go to bed. I went upstairs into the room she said I could say in...at this point I was very intoxicated and the last thing I remember was laying down on the bed....then when I woke up a girl whom I had just met that night, was on top of me and fucking me...no lie. First thing I thought was I was dreaming. It was only around 3am so I hadn't been out THAT long but once I realized what was going on I immediately put an end to it...thankfully she was smart enough to put a condom on me. I had met this girl, and was talking to her for sometime during the party but at no point do I remember telling her to do this...I was obviously asleep when she...started. I'm not sure if It's rape because according to her she thought I wanted it....and to be honest I would have done her if she had just asked...she was really hot and lots of other things but after that I'm kinda of weirded out by her. I'm not going to like...try and get her in trouble or anything, I don't think it's necessary. I definitely don't have any emotional or physical harm and I don't think she even thinks she did anything wrong but I just thought the whole situation was weird.

I'd heard rape that has happened to males by women...obviously not as often and probably MUCH different circumstances but I don't know if what happened to me qualifies.

Your thoughts and comments on the subject:

P.S. I apologize for the lengthy description.

Doughnut wrote:

Interesting story but i don't think this could be classed as "rape" as you have no proof you didn't say yes.

For all you know she could have woken you up asked if you wanted her to fuck you and then 'coz you were so wasted you said yes then fell asleep again.

K maybe I misled you...I wasn't THAT drunk lol. I know I never said that and I also know she didn't wake me up. Again, I don't think it's rape either I just want to know what she thought it was. Like, whether she went in to rape me or was just so trashed she had no control over what she was doing.

lol well at the time I was unaware of the condom part. Also...I had no idea who it was in the dark. I didn't discover who she was until I turned the light on.

And yeah it is possible lol

lol maybe. I really wish she just woke me up first it would've been much better for the both of us lol

Omg I don't even want to think about that. If it was some random I've be completely freaked out I don't even know what I'd do. I'd probably throw them off and run lol. No, but I have no idea.

If It was someone I knew very well...I guess it depends on who it was. Some people I might be like wtf get off me. Others I might just continue lol

Yeah my mom tells me that too. When she attempts to wake me up for school every morning it takes her so long. And I've slept through some pretty loud stuff...
Although I'm sure the alcohol played a little part in that aswell.