jordan132 wrote:
did anyone here actually wait for someone special?someone they truely cared about and stayed with? and not just a convenient lay?
The boyfriend that I lost my virginity to and I stayed together for 8 months after we lost our virginities to each other. Plenty of people do wait for years in a relationship. It is definitely untrue to believe that everyone just "throws it away". Don't get me wrong, I don't think there's anything inherently important about virginity, and I don't see anything wrong with having sex just to have sex if that's what you want. But everyone is different, and I've never met anyone who regrets waiting, but I have met plenty of people who regret not waiting.