So, I've got this friend. She is a very innocent and sweet girl. I don't think she even knows what lesbianism is, but I can tell that she's gay. How should I tell her?
My friend is a lesbian...
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Why would you wanna tell her? Maybe she just acts like one, but in fact she's not. You telling her can actually make her one. If I were you, I'd actually try to help her turn back to the straight road.
If she comes to realize that she's a lesbian, let her come to that revelation by herself without any outside help. -
What, you are going to tell her she is lesbian.
Your on drugs, leave her alone. Dont put ideas in to her head, if she is a lesbian she knows -
Don't tell her. If she hasn't figured it out yet and really is she will just figure it out eventually.i don't sleep
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Ya know (to the OP), sounds like you want to put some moves on your 'friend.' To say: She is a very innocent and sweet girl. I don't think she even knows what lesbianism is, but I can tell that she's gay, sounds like you want to hit on her... Creepy...[CENTER][SIGPIC]http://www.teenhut.net/signaturepics/sigpic25018_4.gif[/SIGPIC] [/CENTER]
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idk2008 wrote:
Ya know (to the OP), sounds like you want to put some moves on your 'friend.' To say: She is a very innocent and sweet girl. I don't think she even knows what lesbianism is, but I can tell that she's gay, sounds like you want to hit on her... Creepy...
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It's not your right to tell her. Let her make up her mind for herself.
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This is one of the stupidest things I've ever heard. You can't 'tell' if someone's gay. I'd like to hear your evidence for her supposed homosexuality.[CENTER]
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tbh i don't think its any of your business
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How did you come to the conclusion that she is lesbian, when you say she doesnt even know the whats lesbianism?
And, hmm no dont tell her anything, its her life, let her think herself. -
Esmo wrote:
You can't 'tell' if someone's gay. No one knows I am. I'd like to hear your evidence for her supposed homosexuality.
She clearly becomes physically aroused when she is around attractive women, and not at all when she is around men. VERY aroused- deeper breathing, flushed cheeks, more animated, and on two occasions she became wet. She's asked me a couple times afterwords why she was so "energized." I don't see how there is anything wrong with explaining to her that she is physically attracted to other girls. I think it might help her avoid some awkward or embarrassing situations later on. And its not like i'd say- hey go be a lezbo. I'd just explain what's going on, and she could decide to roll with it or not. Either way, I'd still be her friend. -
catateface wrote:
She clearly becomes physically aroused when she is around attractive women, and not at all when she is around men. VERY aroused- deeper breathing, flushed cheeks, more animated, and on two occasions she became wet. She's asked me a couple times afterwords why she was so "energized." I don't see how there is anything wrong with explaining to her that she is physically attracted to other girls. I think it might help her avoid some awkward or embarrassing situations later on. And its not like i'd say- hey go be a lezbo. I'd just explain what's going on, and she could decide to roll with it or not. Either way, I'd still be her friend.
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WTF?
Seriously, this is as bad as that anecdote;
"Telling a blond girl she is pregnant" -
well shes not that innocent by the way and if she gets wet being around hot girls she already knows
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catateface wrote:
she really doesn't understand though. She's been very sheltered her whole life, home schooled and all of that.
Huh?
Girl, so what. Has she ever watched TV?
TV has sex on it all the time.
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maybe you can try to coax or PUSH her out of the closet?i don't sleep
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