Hey, pinkspiders

First off; I think you have every right to feel how you feel. Would you agree with me when I say that I think you're friend may just be a little childish? Ignoring you for a week because you called her selfish isn't really that mature and being majorly pissed with you because you were appointed to show some new girls around and, therefore, couldn't spend time with her is a tad bit, well, childish. Don't you think?

Ditching you was pretty unfair, she could have, at least, called you to cancel. But, try not to let the new boyfriend that she has become a factor with you and you're friendship with her. I know it's frustrating now and again, though.

Now, in answer to you're question - I wouldn't do either. I wouldn't apologise to her because you've done nothing wrong. But, nor would I ignore her because of it. I'd talk to her - tell her how you feel, and how you think she is being a "petty spiteful cow" maybe not say it like that, of course (lol) but, depending on what kind of friendship you have with her really depends on how you explain how you feel. I mean, if you feel confident enough in the friendship to actually say "personally, I think you're being a petty spiteful cow" then, go ahead. If not, perhaps just explain that she is being unreasonable and that you are getting sick of her being unreasonable towards you.

If she doesn't like the fact you have explained how you feel, at least you have the satisfaction of knowing you were honest and that you tried to explain for the better. But, if she seems okay with you explaining how you feel, then give her the oppotunity to respond with her side of things? Does that make sense?

Good luck with it all, hope it all works out!

Support Leader,

SimpleGirl*

Bonjour pinkspiders,

It really sounds like you need to sit down and have a serious talk with this so called "friend" of yours, because it doesn't sound much like she's acting like a friend at all.

Walking out on the school play when your mom payed for the ticket was pretty out of order, she obviously doesn't appreciate it much.

It also seems like she's pretty jealous about you having other friends, which seems ridiculous after the way she treated you.

A talk sounds in order.

Support leader,
Doughnut*

Really, try and talk to her.
She is acting not like a normal friend would do, getting pissed because you had to show new girls around, is unfair. She's probably just jealous of you having other friends but her. You have jealous, but you also have out of control jealousy.

I Dont Think Ignoring Her Is The Right Thing To Do, You Probably Didnt Like It When She Ignored You, And You Have To Treat Others The Way You Would Like To Be Treated.. Even If She Doesn't Do That, I Think You Should Be The Bigger Person..

I Also Think You Should Try And Talk To Her About You Are Feeling. The Outcome Of That Will Decide Wether She's A Real Friend Or Not..

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You need to try and hang out more, talk to her about your feelings and lessen to her about her's. Sorry i can't help more, I'm in a rush.

The Sorrow.

Not much of a friend then is she if she acts like that then why give respect back/

Gonna be straight up with you. You should talk to her about it and tell her what she's doing is pissing you off. And if she doesnt want to change that, then she probably isnt someone that you need around you. Nothing but stress.

stand up for urself i had a situation like tht only my mate was like TEN times worse she was a NIGHTMARE!! BITCH!! so on so forth haha ANYWAYs Last nite she was bitchin agen n i usually jus say sorry or try ignore it so we dnt get into a big fite but last nite i lost n told her exactly how i felt n tht i wasnt gonna sit n listen 2 her bitch n moan at me n slag me ALL THE TIME ! n after i said my big speech 2 her, she replied "wen r u free nxt? its about time u grew some balls n stuck up 2 me" hahahaha !! so jus let it all out i no d situation wit me mite nt be the same wit u but dnt hold it in n ignore it cause it WILL get worse , as ya no ya shud never bottle tht stuff up ...jus explain 2 her exactly how u feel x x x

how long have you been friends with her? if your long time friends I highly doubt you'll keep this fighting for long...

try and talk to her and sit down properly like adults

get a mob to bash them