I don't even know her name...

iPodge · Sep 13th 2008, 9:40pm

Hey, I just started college about a week ago and in my philosophy class is this girl... I don't even know her name but from the minute I first looked at her I wasn't able to look away. She's not exactly the most beautiful girl I've ever seen but there's something about her that I don't even understand. I don't even know her name... I wouldn't know where to start looking for her around the campus and the way the desks are set up and the way the lessons work in philosophy make it impossible for me to talk to her during lesson... so I guess I'm not asking for advice but just wanna say how great it is going to bed with a smile for once

DareToDream · Sep 13th 2008, 9:44pm

Talk to her after class?

Fashion · Sep 13th 2008, 9:45pm

I am sure that she is one of the most beautiful women you have seen to feel this way towards her : ) If she's your type then she may appear beautiful to you. I dont believe the phrase "one woman is more prettier than the other" cause as long as there's attraction there, then that is all that matters, right? I think i know which girl you mean, i'm sure you're pretty eager to try and ask her out for a fun day downtown or something, so why not try this when you see her next:)?

Nyxie · Sep 13th 2008, 9:47pm

Mhm...Talk to her after class...and, you just don't know how much it means to a girl to be told something like that. Tell her...exactly what you wrote above...
Just to make you happy, if it's not for dating...She'll really appreciate it. These are the things girls find so cute and romantic...make her happy, you have nothing to lose anyway.

iPodge · Sep 13th 2008, 9:51pm

Kat wrote:

I am sure that she is one of the most beautiful women you have seen to feel this way towards her : ) If she's your type then she may appear beautiful to you. I dont believe the phrase "one woman is more prettier than the other" cause as long as there's attraction there, then that is all that matters, right?

Precisely!

Kat wrote:

I think i know which girl you mean, i'm sure you're pretty eager to try and ask her out for a fun day downtown or something, so why not try this when you see her next:)?

Nah this is a different girl :p

Talking to her won't be so easy cos well... I'll just be so nervous, no time after class cos my college is strict so if were late for our next lesson we get like tons of extra homework and then we get put on this contract thing if it happens twice so... I'll work it out :p

Just wanted to say how great this is!! :D:D:D:D:D

Laura · Sep 13th 2008, 11:10pm

your college rules sound gay! and im sure she is very beautiful. im happy for you

Onyx · Sep 13th 2008, 11:18pm

Tawlk to her after class.
Tell her what you think.

Hitch · Sep 13th 2008, 11:19pm

Hello,

There is always a chance to talk to her. Just after class, since it's going to be a bit informal, just say "Hi" when you pass and keep this up until you see her somewhere else. Then since you have actually spoken to her it might be a bit less-awkward to start a proper conversation. You could always just find her at lunch or something and just sit with her, remember to pick a neutral topic to talk about so both parties can contribute.

Have fun

Support Leader,
- Hitch

enchant · Sep 14th 2008, 1:02am

Aww.. That's sweet.

iPodge · Sep 14th 2008, 12:15pm

Thanks for the idea Hitch!

Just gotta keep saying hi and get more friendly, just gotta take my time

iPodge · Sep 16th 2008, 6:50pm

Tried to talk to her today after the lesson and she just disappeared into the crowd

Tabzi · Sep 16th 2008, 7:07pm

You have found your love, Well done man, Heres what i suggest, After Lesson, First chance you get, talk to her.. First time you eyes meet, SMILE, First time you smile at each other, Be sweet, and talk and talk, Once your talking to her daily, about any thing you like, ANYTHING, you both like, your hobbies etc, slowly, your confidence will build up, then you can start going out in groups, with friends and stuff, and slowly, minimize the numbers in the group event, Say you go with 5 people, lower it down by 1 each time, Until it reaches just the 2 of you.. and before you know it, Bam, your dating

Goodluck!

JennyColada · Sep 16th 2008, 7:11pm

Oh my gosh, lol, that sounds exactly like me and this girl from a Biology class of mine. I would stare at her all day, it was mad. I actually say her at the mall randomly one day (but of course was too embarassed to say anything to her).

I know that I should have just walked up to her after class and said hi, maybe even asked her out for coffee or lunch, but I didn't have the guts, and now I just look back and frown.

Espeically with college, you can always use studying as an excuse. Everyone has to study, and doing it together really gives you time to get to know one another.

Neal · Sep 16th 2008, 7:13pm

Philosophy classes tend to have some in-class discussions, so there you go.

Tabzi · Sep 16th 2008, 7:16pm

Dude Neal, you always come up with something wierd.. "There you go", He needs help talking to her..

iPodge · Sep 16th 2008, 8:12pm

Yeah every time I try to it feels like I'm just gonna stumble over myself and look like a complete arse lol

S1919 · Sep 16th 2008, 8:23pm

Try again mate, just introduce yourself and see how it goes from there:)

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