Being in touch with your femanine side does not make you gay! And vice versa!

I wouldn't panic, unless your feelings are of a strong sexual nature, that may be when you start to realise your gay. If there's nothing sexual, its just a bit of feminimity - some girls find that cute as well - and if you don't show femininity some girls say you have no heart!!! (Yes - I had a slight disagreement with a girl at my school about this today!)

I've pmed you. and its natural to be scared.

cirrax, I'm scarred only when i see your mood and i realize I'm coming up too see you next year

really, wanna meet up? I'm considered good company hun, I'm not steriotype and I dont hit on every guy I see. it would be nice to meet a teenhut friend.

one hing to bear in mind is you mite not be gay but you mite just love him as a freind a i do some of my freinds.
saying tha you might be gay but just try and ask would you want him as a boy freind or a m8

Do you have any sexual feelings or sexual intentions with a boy? Do you feel attracted to boys? Some of the questions you should ask yourself. If you're really confused, it's okay. Don't let people judge you because of that, you know who you are. You should just wait until either the feeling has gone away (because it might be temporary) or either your feelings has developed.

if you feel that you are gay,
then your gay.

i can't feel your emotions
so how can i fathom?

because you said that you dont wanna have sex with him, you may not be, but then again because you like hugging him you might be, id only tell him if you really trust him, and if you think he would be fine with it

attraction isnt always sexually based. its often emotionally based.

I think...I think your in love with him.

so yeah, that would make you gay if you didnt like girls.

jus because the guy is on the football team could mean some very bad reprecussions if he turns out not to like oyu at all. and im sure you could think of those things to. keep it to yourself for now

Generally people around their teenage years
don't have any clue as to who they are. I'm
just fourteen myself and in all honesty I don't
know who I am either. That's the big mystery,
for me at least. It's like from the time you can
talk and notice the world around you to the last
days of being ten years old you basically know
who you're. You're a ten year old girl or guy that
has friends, or maybe doesn't, but still manages
to have a fun time at recess and doesn't fear the
future or even wonder or think about it. When you're
little you're fearless for the most part.

However once puberty kicks in it's like it all goes
down hill. You start to question authority, your
own sexuality, your friends sexuality, why you're
even here in this big thing called life and why sometimes
it sucks so bad - it's called growing up.

Now after that incredibly long prolong to what I really
wanted to say - there isn't necessarily a way for you
to test whether or not you're gay. Honestly, you should
be able to decide that for yourself. It's okay to question it.
Most people I know have, or will. But that doesn't mean you
have to shout out to the world or even to that friend of yours
that you're gayer then the words meaning. Take baby steps.
You're not even sure about it yet. If women still are attractive
to you chances are that you're bisexual. It's the best of both
worlds, really.

Anyways, just do not rush yourself in this lifestyle decision.
I don't really have tips for you aside from just going into
your room or anywhere that has a quiet atmosphere and
focusing on yourself and what you want. Discovering another
small piece of yourself. Play some music. Think about it. Write
about it. Eventually you'll know, I promise.

Hope that helps you out.
If you need anything else
feel free to private message me.
:]

`dftba. frdef. ~

* I didn't read the entire thread
so I don't know if this problem has already
been resolved or what have you. Ignore
if so.

Yup, you're gay.

There's no homosexuality with no sexual attraction, that's the root. You just like him, happens.

So is bumping old threads.