Can you not move out for a while?
with someone else.
Family/friend/boyfriend?
it'll give you some time to chill out

Sammie. You have excuses after excuses. Mature up.

at least she doesn't leave you by the road when you were born

You're both in the wrong, You'll have to come to a compromise.
I'm sorry you are in this situation, but as i said in a different one of your threads, you are being very disrespectful to your mother. I see this as immaturity.

Sorry for being "harsh", reality hurts.

Then stop doing those kind things for your mom. Simple.

Maybe your mom is just bummed out about how you're better looking than her.

Personally, if I were your mom, I would start treating you with respect. Why? Because I'm disabled, and I'm not getting any younger.

I'll worry about how I'll be aging and going to the retirement home and then nursing home. Who will take care of me?

I wonder, if you disappeared for 3 weeks, and come back, will that help? She should then realize how important you are / how much she depends on you.

Imagine if you finally lived with your boyfriend, like where you have your own part-time job, and you visited your mom once a month. Or, whenever you felt like it!

Meh.

I think that is is horrible how she treats you. I think you need to stop doing things for her and stand up for herself. You are the child and things are backwards.

I agree with this. Also, if she's ungrateful, then what are you? Al you do is complain about her, yet, she's providing you with food, shelter, the computer and Internet you're using to complain about her, as well as many other things. That's being ungrateful.

if your mother is bedridden she is probably very angry, grouchy ect. AKA total bitch like but beleive me even if you bitch at ea. other and hate ea. other to no end and would love to tear her limb from limb you will miss her so much when she isn't there, but advice wise go out get a job maybe 2 save up money get a 1 bedroom studio apt. hell i'm 15 and i pay my bills and deal with a bedridden uncle i now how it feels. just try to see life through her eyes maybe.... =\

then go on a diet.

Wow, hard words, don´t you think? I never in my life I wish the death, don´t even to my worst enemy, and now, you are talking about your mother!!

But I understand that you are in a very difficult situation, I hope that all get better.

double post, sorry...

This reminds me of my grandma, except I stopped helping her out long ago. But she lives with us, most of the time just argues about the stupidest things, makes fun of people and us, somewhat of a racist, a bitch. No need to say more, but my point is, no matter how much I hate her, I would rather have her move out than die.

With all your hard work. Put it into a job and get your own place. Become independent. You mom will realize how much you do for her. But don't hate her. She's your mom.

look, some moms are like that. But one day you WILL regret saying that. I said that about several people and they have died and i felt like complete shit. Especially when one friend died on the phone talking with me. WE had made up and were going to go out the all i heard was a loud bang and it all got quite. i regret the thing that i had said to her and wish that it was me instead of her.
RIP Samantha

I agree with Rando, she's probably fustrated with being bedridden and it's making her grouchy and possibly jealous of you. People lash out when fustrated. Nearly everyone does. We're human.