You have to just trust the fact that it will come naturally. Be gentle and don't try and shove your tongue right down her throat (i've had lads do that it isn't nice) and you'll be fine.

Tbf, i don't think you can "learn" how to do it,
It just comes naturally, i thought the same, but once you do it it's like you already know how to and it just happens.

You learn as you go.

lol okay so basically the worst thing you could do is think about what your doing with your toungue all you have to do is interact with your partners toungue and rub the tips together but make sure your not keeping your toungue stiff

Yeah what everyone else said you learn as you go. My girlfriend and I kissed for the first time after we won biggest football game of the year and in the rain, but thats just how we roll. We were trying to make out but it ended up only being like a few seconds. We just kept kissing and eventually it naturally ended up being for like 20 minutes.

Heck i've "french kissed" like 9 girls now and I still don't know what Im doing, every time i go in for it again I have to just hope i do it right lol.

yeah..just don't think about it. go by your instincts. get nervous, your tongue gets stiff.. and that's not good. so just chill and do your thing.
if she's serious about you, she won't mind if you're not too pro on your first kiss

It's like regular kissing ... just that after a while you put her tongue in her mouth XD

As everyone said, it should just come naturally and try not to think about it too much. One of the ways I used to signal to my boyfriend is that I'd lick his lip while we're kissing. So, you can try that as a way to kinda of 'ask' if she doesn't mind lol

And as mercedes said, don't shove your tongue down her throat. I don't know if it's just me, but guys seem to have big tongues and it's so easy for them to do that without knowing

Yeah, I totally had the same problem about a year ago, but my boyfriend helped me with that one.
Just don't be too nervous and just do what feels right.
If you don't think about it it'll come naturally. =)
Although, it may be different with guys if you have to initate? x.x

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