im a 17 year old girl and i met this girl when i was downtown almost 2 months ago with some friends and shes a bit older than me. and i asked her for her number and we hit it off automatically. weve been seeing eachother at least once a week since we met abd talking basically everday. and we were actually getting pretty close and its almost to the point where we're like a couple. but this past saturday i went and saw her at her work and things went fine and she texted me that night for a bit after i left and then she stopped but i just figured work got busy cuz that happened often. so i didnt hear from her the next day which was wierd cuz she texted me everyday. so i texted her that night and never got a reply until midnight and shee said she was sorry she didnt text me cuz she was sleeping. but i didnt get that text until iwoke up in the morning. and i didnt hear from her the next day so i texted her that day and never got a response. so i didnt text her again until tonight and never got a response. im really confused and dont know if im just being insecure or paranoid or what. i dont understand why she would just stop talking to me cuz she was really into me or at least i thought she was.:confused:
i need advice. help please
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Just relax, be patient and keep trying to make contact with her, maybe try alternates then just texting all the time cause she might not be able to get to her phone all the time. Try and meet up more often, or call her before you guys sleep etc.
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thank you for your advice. the thing is she usually goes to bed right when im waking up in the morning cuz of her work schedule so its kind of hard. and she usually texts me every chance i get. you dont think if i keep trying to get ahold of her itll make me seem desperate?
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i think you should relax and don't stress yourself about it. There could be a lot of reasons why she didn't reply right away. It's probably a timeing issue. You're awake when she's going to bed so that would make it hard. I think you should let her come to you for a change. Personally, i think constantly trying to get a hold of her does seem desperate. If she really is interested she'll text you back. Give it time you have to allow for some breathing room.
hope this helped
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^ what she said lol
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thank you for your help
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