Okay... so I'm so confused...

Shadow823 · Nov 9th 2008, 6:57pm

Okay... so here's the deal. My boyfriend broke up with me around 3 months ago, but he's still acting so weird. So, here's the details:
The day before he broke up with me he was really clingy; he hugged me 3 times before I finally went home. He then sent me an email with the breakup saying that "he got bored." So now here's the weird part: I asked his best friend about a week ago because he is cute and funny (he said no). But now my ex is acting like a bitch.

WHAT THE HELL IS GOING ON?!:confused:

petriieplayspool · Nov 9th 2008, 7:24pm

wait, what did you ask your best friend, first of all?

if he has to break up with you through an email, this guy isnt worth it anyway.
if hes going to be a bitch to you, be a bitch back.

Shadow823 · Nov 18th 2008, 2:39am

I asked his best friend out, but he made the breakup seem like he wasn't interested anymore...

cedric · Nov 18th 2008, 9:21am

hmm you sound like a slut

Shadow823 · Nov 19th 2008, 1:26am

Actually, no. I liked him and his friend from the beginning. Plus, I've only had one boyfriend and am still a virgin... How am I a slut?

Jasmine · Nov 19th 2008, 3:41am

He could be upset because you're moving on and maybe he's not yet and you asked his best friend out. He's just being immature about it. I agree that if he broke up by email then he isn't worth your time. If he keeps acting that way then just talk to him about it.
hope this helped

Support Leader,

Jasmine

x-mercedes-x · Nov 19th 2008, 12:40pm

Because lads aren't all born without feelings and i know that if my ex asked out my best friend just a week later that would piss me off. Even if i was the one who'd ended things because the fact that you're willing to move on so quickly and the fact it was my best friend would give the impression that all the time you spent together meant nothing because you were after my best mate, you get what i'm saying?
That's how he's probably feeling, and although i agree that dumping you over email wasn't his best idea, it's a hell of alot better than getting a text and no reason. You need to talk to him, find out how he feels and sort things out.
All the best
Support Leader
Charley

Chapman1029 · Nov 19th 2008, 8:38pm

Thats screwed up. That your ex would say that to you in the first place about being bored is just fucked up.

Shadow823 · Nov 20th 2008, 1:47am

x-mercedes-x wrote:

Because lads aren't all born without feelings and i know that if my ex asked out my best friend just a week later that would piss me off. Even if i was the one who'd ended things because the fact that you're willing to move on so quickly and the fact it was my best friend would give the impression that all the time you spent together meant nothing because you were after my best mate, you get what i'm saying?
That's how he's probably feeling, and although i agree that dumping you over email wasn't his best idea, it's a hell of alot better than getting a text and no reason. You need to talk to him, find out how he feels and sort things out.
All the best
Support Leader
Charley

A week later?? I asked out his friend four months later, because that's how long it sort of took me to get over him (except I'm still in love with him)

5cent92 · Nov 20th 2008, 2:01am

I think the only reason why he went out with you is to get in your pants... and he never did... soo he got "bored"

Tootsie · Nov 20th 2008, 5:12pm

What do you mean your "Confused"?
You asked his bestfriend out...C'mon now!!!
That's about as worst as him breaking up with you in email...
Well no I take that back...YOURS IS WORST.
This is not to sound mean or anything
But you should've known that that was a big mistake...BESTFRIENDS tell each other almost everything.
And in your case...DUHHH seeing as tho one of them is your ex!
So I don't blame him for the simple fact that was WRONG on your behalf!

S1919 · Nov 20th 2008, 5:50pm

No offence intended, but I would be annoyed too? It would seem like you're trying to get at his best friend to make him jealous.

x-mercedes-x · Nov 20th 2008, 5:55pm

Shadow823 wrote:

A week later?? I asked out his friend four months later, because that's how long it sort of took me to get over him (except I'm still in love with him)

Apologies, i read a week ago as a week later, but my point still stands, he has every right to be pissed off at you.

mavrick579 · Nov 21st 2008, 5:19pm

hey may be you should try talkin to you ex .my be its his ego that is makin him behave in such a wiered way .
i would suggest you to have a word with him

Shadow823 · Nov 22nd 2008, 5:21am

Okay, thanks guys...

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