Hey Spark,

Is it possible to have a word with you're friend? Explain to her that you are concerned for her well being when it comes to this 24 year old guy. The one thing that alarmed me in this thread was this guy pressured her when she said no? Now, thats not good at all. And, I can clearly see you're concern for you're friend. I think I would be the same way if I had a friend who was in this situation.

Now, it may be possible that this guy does like your friend, but its a small chance. Older guys can be very persuasive, pressurising and 'charming' - and, a young girl like her, will fall for that completely, maybe? So, like I said earlier - have a word with her. Tell her that you are worried about the situation she has found herself in and that you are concerned because you care.

Let us know how you get on, yea?

Support Leader,
SimpleGirl*

That's because love's blinded her. Love can do that.

You need to talk to her about it and tell her how you feel because it is not going to get better without support from you.

Tell her that you're sorry, and you want to meet him and try to get along with him.
If you start a relationship with him and try to become his friend,

a) You might realise he's a good guy and he really likes your friend
or
b) You can keep a closer eye on him and make sure he doesn't hurt her.
Hope it works out!

So she has sex with people she doesn't really know eh.....

do you have her phone number? I think i can talk some sense into her....

Are you sure she's just a friend? It kinda' sounds like you might be a little jelous as well as worried.


Talk to her, she's your friend she will listen to you.

I do have to say from the things you've said I don't think you're just worried, maybe you wanna' be with her - protect her from all that and make her feel loved.

She sounds like a pretty normal, experimental 17 year old to me! We all get hurt babes, but thats part of the party!

try talking to her, yes it might not work, but explain your view on it. Maybe she'll understand?

If not, keep an eye on her, and if it goes wrong, be there to help her.

Tell her that not only is it illegal, but that it is morally wrong and that it will be something she will regret down the road.

You need to try to be-friend this guy, you never know he could be a good guy.

BUT


If you can't get her to change her mind make sure she gets him to wear condoms.

theres not much you can do now, cause you have already talked to her. sometimes people have to learn the hard way.

just talk to her about it and if you have to tell her parents....

Try convincing her a few times more, and if she didn't listen to you, let her do what she wants........