You have two choices, you could be truthful or deceitful.

If deceitful just say that you were going to but didn't. Because you remembered what happened to your sister.

If truthful, say it straight up. Say that your girlfriend was fine with it and you were too, so you two decided to do it.

Your mom shouldn't be giving you hell. You didn't do anything wrong to begin with. You did the right thing and used a condom. If anything your mom should be proud that you practiced safe sex. Sit down have a talk with her. Tell yeah I'm having sex with my girl friend. And, I'm being safe about it by using condoms. Tell your mom you really love your girl friend. And that both of you feel the same way about each other. Maybe she can't believe that you are having sex. It's not easy for parents to accept. I'm sure if you sit down and talk to her she will understand. At least you were being smart and used a condom. That counts a lot, it also show that you are responsible for your actions. Your mom should be at least proud of that. Now have she know ur having sex, she can't stop it. What she should be doing is buying you condoms, so you continue to be safe. Oh If your gf isn't already on birth control. I do recommend she goes on it, as a second layer of protection from getting pregnant. Hope this helps, if u need more advice. I have msn and aim.

hey it would be easier to talk on msn or aim. You got one of those?

who uses a condom for oral? your mum will think your some retard

Well than you have the right to enjoy your gf, No one can take that away from you. Your being safe about it. You have been dating for awhile. And you both love each other a lot.

there u go lol. Maybe it might be easier to lie now than tell the truth later???

:lol::lol::lol: Next time, flush the condom down the toilet. NEVER throw it out in the garbage. But here, I'm going to give you a lie that will not fail. Your mom asks you. What happened? You say the following:

You: Mom, ok, so this is how it goes. I was curious on how a condom feels like and I wanted to see if it fit me and I did my necessities in it. :o But I promise mom, I am still a virgin and the day I do have sex, I'll tell you.

just be truthful about it

Say it was your dads condom. That'll definetely get you out of the shit hole.

If you tell her you witnessed him using it, you get extra brownie points.

^ Sounds good.

say it was a gift FROM your girlfriend but being the good kid you are u threw it away and proposed her to wait until marriege

/win-win

Then his mum thinks little of his girlfriend.

Tell her your a male.

Lol.

tell her you dad sexually abuses you

girlfriend is really a boy

Tell her she should be thankful you made the wise decision in using a condom.