A few weeks ago, my friend started dating this guy who had been flirting with her for a long time beforehand. Two days later, he IMed her and told her he shouldn't have asked her out, because he already had a girlfriend. Not long after, he told her that while he was dating her, he had another girlfriend and four or five other girls who he made out with regularly.
Not long after that, she was suckered into an "open relationship" with another guy. He insisted that he would tell her as soon as he started a serious relationship with someone and as soon as it ended. That was going on for about a week when we found out that another girl was planning on breaking up with him. After that we discovered that he has a MINIMUM of seven "open relationships" right now, as well as a girlfriend he never told any of them about.
So here's the problem. She is still friends with the first guy, even though he still tries to flirt with her and get her to make out with him quite a lot. I've seen him flirting with other girls too. She still hasn't talked to the second guy about what he's been doing. He has no idea she knows, and she's hoping that if she talks to him about it he'll dump all of the other girls for her, because she thinks that he really likes her. I'm trying to get her to distance herself from both of them, because I know that they're going to just keep using her, but she won't listen to me. We now get into arguments every time the issue is brought up, and I'm worried about her. I don't know what to do!
Not long after that, she was suckered into an "open relationship" with another guy. He insisted that he would tell her as soon as he started a serious relationship with someone and as soon as it ended. That was going on for about a week when we found out that another girl was planning on breaking up with him. After that we discovered that he has a MINIMUM of seven "open relationships" right now, as well as a girlfriend he never told any of them about.
So here's the problem. She is still friends with the first guy, even though he still tries to flirt with her and get her to make out with him quite a lot. I've seen him flirting with other girls too. She still hasn't talked to the second guy about what he's been doing. He has no idea she knows, and she's hoping that if she talks to him about it he'll dump all of the other girls for her, because she thinks that he really likes her. I'm trying to get her to distance herself from both of them, because I know that they're going to just keep using her, but she won't listen to me. We now get into arguments every time the issue is brought up, and I'm worried about her. I don't know what to do!