The title pretty much says it all. I've never done it before, but I really want to give my boyfriend one the next time we have the opportunity.
How hard am I supposed to grip? How fast should I go? I've heard that not all guys need lube; should I use some just in case?
It's not the kind of thing that can just be started and then stopped, is it? I mean, when he fingers -me-, he doesn't have to keep doing it to orgasm for it to be enjoyable. I imagine that if I start on him, though, I have to be prepared to finish. And what exactly is the, umm, proper etiquette for dealing with cum? Is there going to be a lot of it?
I know that blowjobs/sex is better, but that's not going to happen.
Thanks in advance.
How hard am I supposed to grip? How fast should I go? I've heard that not all guys need lube; should I use some just in case?
It's not the kind of thing that can just be started and then stopped, is it? I mean, when he fingers -me-, he doesn't have to keep doing it to orgasm for it to be enjoyable. I imagine that if I start on him, though, I have to be prepared to finish. And what exactly is the, umm, proper etiquette for dealing with cum? Is there going to be a lot of it?
I know that blowjobs/sex is better, but that's not going to happen.
Thanks in advance. 
