madly in love with 1st cousin

shaggy · Dec 31st 2008, 5:34am

Well as a guy who as break it down with his cousin , im telling you , nothing changed , its just for you to not let mabe your family members know what happening...Though i think my aunt knows what happening and its all cool........Still ever family is defferent ......
It all depends on how you peoples would react to this......Like i said weve kissed , been intimately close, and nothing as fuckedup so im just doing it....
You cant hide from love bro.....But if you love her and she doesnt have that much affection for you , then its up to you

shaggy · Dec 31st 2008, 5:38am

Kat wrote:

Of course you can't help having the feelings, but i have to agree with everyone else, there probably isn't another option other than to move forward, as she may not feel the same because you're her cousin, therefore try to move forward, i know it might be difficult.
If it's something that never leaves your mind, it might be good to tell someone in your family.

Somehow i dont agree with this......If he doesnt do something about it, now , later on in life its gonna have an effect on him 1 way or the other.
Well mabe talk about it(crazy crap) But dont just pretend nothing happen , or u dont feel anything, if you do.

Pleasant.Addictions. · Dec 31st 2008, 6:52am

I think the best thing would be just to try and move on. A relationship with your cousin is likely to not work out, and there are more cons than pros to a situation like that.

cheerleader14 · Dec 31st 2008, 11:15am

yeah , i would just say what everyone else is saying.
i mean seriously, theres plenty of girls in this world, im SURE you can move on from your cousin. just quit thinking about it.

good luck

Pipkin · Dec 31st 2008, 11:38am

Having sex with a 1st cousin almost amounts to incest. As many have said on this thread "don't do it", I'm saying consider the terrible fallout on you and your family if you get caught.

Think long term. Is having sexual intercourse with your first cousin lead to her getting pregnant? And think of the guilt and the shame inyears to come.

Monophobia · Dec 31st 2008, 5:53pm

DeamonD wrote:

....If he does that then it is going to make his cousin feel uncomfortable (if she doesn't like him) which will ruin their friendship

I don't suggest to make something extreme.. i suggest something like... looking at her and smile all the time or touch her hand a little more when they talk ;]

Paramore1264 · Dec 31st 2008, 7:51pm

Mrazfan113 wrote:

you really shouldnt need to make this thread, the fact that you did just tells us that you KNOW it is wrong. Just try and forget about her and dont think about her in that way. It's a lot better than trying to convince yourself that it is ok.

i could not agree more.

Reprisal · Dec 31st 2008, 10:01pm

I say, you should try and move on. I think that's the best solution. I know it won't be easy, but it never hurts to try.

goredsox345 · Jan 1st 2009, 12:05am

yoda wrote:

hey guys i am a fifteen yr old male whohas been in love with his female first cousin for bout 7-8 months i dont think she feels the same way bout me and i'm scared to tell her because it could ruin our relationship and my family would be really freaked out with it plzzzzz help

don't post on this thread if you are going tyo be nasty i just need some advice THIS IS NOT JUST A STUPID CRUSH

dont dude, its not worth it.

unless you both become intimate with eachother then dont tell her and dont pursue her.

it'll create so many problems dude, its not worth it.

devilcurls6981 · Jan 1st 2009, 2:20am

ew...

goredsox345 · Jan 1st 2009, 4:33am

yes, eww

yoda1 · Jan 3rd 2009, 3:35am

1st: Welcome to the Teen Hut Forums! Enjoy your stay over here!

2nd: How old is she?
3rd: It's normal to feel something about your cousin... You just have to leave it alone - she's your cousin. You'll still find more attractive girls. (Whatever you may call "attractive".) So, just stop thinking about her.
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the answer to point number 2 above is she is 17yrs old nearly 18 i'm also nearly 16 there is a 2 yr age gap

THIS WAS POSTED BY YODA IN RESPONSE TO THE QUESTION STATED ABOVE IN THIS COMMENT

LiLxMiSSY93 · Jan 3rd 2009, 4:02am

I've heard of this from so many people. Plenty of my friends have been attracted to their cousins before. It's very common.

I just wouldn't recommend acting on your feelings. I would *strongly* recommend you ignore the feelings you have for her.

yoda1 · Feb 23rd 2009, 12:35am

i think i will tell her how i feel do you think it is a good idea????

Giggity · Feb 23rd 2009, 12:38am

I like how you bumped a 2 month old thread that doesn't need anymore responses that has already been said =\

RiderzFan · Feb 23rd 2009, 12:41am

I like how you bumped a 3 minute old thread

Giggity · Feb 23rd 2009, 12:42am

I figured it wouldn't really matter considering he bumped a 2 month old thread

RiderzFan · Feb 23rd 2009, 12:44am

lol im just joking around.

Tsunkatse · Feb 23rd 2009, 12:45am

Please don't bump old threads.

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