well ive made a decision.. tomorrow im gonna tell my mum i am gay.. so.. wish me luck (or courage) and i will let you know how it went..

Later

hopefully im not going crazy.. lol. anyway thanks

Well... take that adam done... in the post following i will post the msn conversation...

im not sure whats gunna happen now...

keep ya posted..

me so.. i have to tell you something... but i dont want to XD
me lol
mum ok tell me anyway
me y?
mum (like your msg.. no more sleeps, got to deal with x first though)
me XD
mum oh got rid of it
mum what is XD?
me a smiley
mum ohhhhhhhh
me look at it side on
me cross eyed
mum yeah i get it now
me
mum
me (5 mins later) so i will tell ya.. but i dont wanna talk about it at the moment
mum ok
mum i thought it was about my message
me im gay...
me no.. i thought that was funny
mum hmmm r u really?
me ..no comment
me XD
mum be serious are you? i am not worried whatever way but dont leave me hanging
me lol.. yes serious
mum wow
mum how do you know?
me lol..
me the same way you know you like someone XD
me (i wanted to tell you.. just dont wanna tell dad..
mum )

mum thats ok you dont need to tell anyone yet, and i sam not sure if at this age we really know for sure... i mean you might but we often are exploring who we are at the moment
mum not sam was am lol
me lol
mum how long have you known?
me hmm.. bout 3 wks.. just b4 i went to dads..
mum what happened to make you know then?
me but thought in my mind for longer
me ?
mum well what happened to make you think this, that you are gay?
me lol.. not realy sure..
me just got rid of all other possibilities
me XD
mum huh how can you do that at 14?
me hmm.. i dunno actualy
mum well sweets if you really are then you know i love you and accept you whatever is... all i hope is one day you find someone to love
me lol
me XD
me well im gunna go play guitar hero now..
me lol
mum but also it is pretty new to you, so why dont you keep your mind open and we'll see how things go for a while
me yeah..
mum can i say somehting else>
me
mum please
me go
me ..
me er.. go on
me still waiting
me ...
mum society is not as accepting of gay relationships, so though i realise in the end it is not a decision, and i am open minded as is james and we supprot you, high school kids at this age wont be so understanding yet
me lol
mum so it is somehting as much as i hate to say, keep to ourselves for a litle bit
me no wasnt planing to tell anyone eilse
me XD
mum well i love you thank you for trusting me
mum xo go play guitar hero we will talk about this more when you wish a little later

im still not convinced this is over.. but at least she knows now..

the conversation will hopefully help you know what to expect from your parents.. although remember every parent is different..