He goes between being really amazing and being a real pain? I don't think that's good. It's like taking a vase, dropping it, then glueing it back together. Eventually the vase is going to be so damaged that it won't even look like a vase anymore, even when glued together.

It's up to you, but I say you need to slowly ween him off of your attention. Pay just a little less attention to him every day, and eventually he'll stand on his own two feet. If he doesn't, then you need to just drop him, because it's not healthy for you. =/

OMFG
HANG UP THE DAMN PHONE
Thats a drama queen with balls nothing more nothing less! All he wants is pity!

I wanna slap that kid so god damn much :mad:

kid=guy=dude

He's a whiny bitch.

*sigh*
>.>

So for how long are you planning on babysitting him?
Rest of his life?

I already told you.
Carying for others is an amazing quality in ANY person. But wasting your feelings on someone who does not appreciate them only HURTS both of you.
On YOUR end it's constant bitching from him. he will hurt you, scar you emotionally and jsut stress you the hell out.

On HIS end, he will think that there is always someone he can bitch to VS just learning that he needs to grow the fuck up (at his age especially) and learn to handle things like a god damn adult. He will never get anywhere in life EVER if he continues to be the way he is now. By showing him that you are not longer going to stand for crap, somethign may click in his head.

That is exactly how it is with kids: they(him) will whine as long as someone pay attention to them (you). As soon as you stop, they realize that they are not the center of the god damn universe and stop.

Well, then be ready to put up with his bs and don't complain about it (no offense intended)


And one would not hurt the other.....if he is not going to help you because you gave him a reality check...then...lol

So do it.

I would say that would be the last resort.
If I were to give him one, I would say that either he listens to what you have to say, or you are hanging up. Once he realizes that you are for real, tell him what you think......and don't be nice, if you are nice, you are soft...if you are soft, he will bitch. So if he has an OUNCE of an MQ, he will at least think about what you said.....if not...........well then we come back to "the choice is yours"
I am afraid you will have to resort to "animal training" techniques here......

Regret how? That he doesn't help you with your hw?
Is help with homework worth all the emo-bs?

Trust me, if you don't, in three months you'll regret not doing it.