pregnant :( ?

Loopy_Loo · Feb 1st 2009, 3:36pm

well , i dont know if i am or if im just worried about nothing.

i had my last period but my friends told me u usualy have ur 1st period then u miss the next . so i dont know what to believe :S

i have started gettin really bad headaches * i mean really bad* i never used to before. i felt really sick this morning although i was never actually sick.

am i just being paranoid and linking little things like bad headaches to being pregnant.

what things do i need to look out for?

i dont want to worry people like my bf atm by buying a test to find out im not, its alot o worry and hastle to go through if im not, i know ur probs all going to say go to the doctors or get a test but iv been down that route before and it causes alot of upset and worry for nothing.

is any one a mum here who could give me some advice?

sorry this is a long thread

thanks for any help
xx

xoCLO · Feb 1st 2009, 4:42pm

Well I'm not a mum, but I think you should perhaps just get a test, I know it would cause upset, but you need to know the truth to 1) Stop the worry if you're not. 2) Prepare if you are. Your friends seem the type of friends that will support you no matter what, so just keep it between you and your friends for a while, and try not to tell your bf because it may worry him no matter what the result.

At the end of the day, it's up to you but I think that's what I would do, personally.

Loopy_Loo · Feb 1st 2009, 4:47pm

thanks hun.

its hard cos i have been through this before and iv been with my bf 3 years and its a serious worry for him to have.

i am at the moment in child care lol
studying my diploma in care and child hood studies so i have a great set a girl friends

i dont want to tell n e 1 really cos if im not then they will be thinking ooh is she doing this for attention.

im very stuck atm lol

is there n e thing i could look out for or something that gives me a clue?

like ur periods do u miss them all the time ? do u have ur 1st one then miss the next?

i study how to care for children not how to get pregnant lol

just_me_90 · Feb 1st 2009, 4:49pm

Buy a test and don't tell any one? those new ones can detect it after just 4 week's now cant they? "clear blue" best one to go for as I remember

CornFlakes · Feb 1st 2009, 4:50pm

Go and buy a home pregnancy test to make sure?

Loopy_Loo · Feb 1st 2009, 4:59pm

'clear blue' is the name that appears the most lol

think im gna have to !

how do u judge it though cos i havent missed a period as of yet and as far as i know u take the 'clear blue' test when ur over due.

as u can tell i am clueless lol

CornFlakes · Feb 1st 2009, 5:06pm

lol sorry im no help i actually have no idea about pregnancy and periods etc

Loopy_Loo · Feb 1st 2009, 5:11pm

CornFlakes wrote:

lol sorry im no help i actually have no idea about pregnancy and periods etc

i forgive you cos i lik the smiley face :D

Kase · Feb 1st 2009, 5:14pm

There may be episodes of bleeding or spotting during pregnancy. So it's definitely not wise to rely on the fact that you still have your periods. Buy a pregnancy test and check so you can stop worrying about it. ;P

Loopy_Loo · Feb 1st 2009, 5:18pm

so u can have a period early in pregnany ?

i am really sounding dull . . . im my course i learn all about when u have the baby at birth and how to raise it just not when ur pregnant lol

Kase · Feb 1st 2009, 5:21pm

Bleeding and spotting during pregnancy isn't caused by periods. You can't have a period during pregnancy, that is caused by the menstral cycle and etc. This bleeding occurs mostly when your hormones are out of control, which causes you to lose parts of the lining of the uterus. It happens for some women during the early stages.

Loopy_Loo · Feb 1st 2009, 5:33pm

oh so there is every chance i could be then? :(

cos i came on this month but it was alot lighter and last 5 instead of 7 days .

ooh im a confuddles mess :confused:

Kase · Feb 1st 2009, 5:38pm

Yes, there is definitely a chance you could be pregnant. Get it checked ASAP.

Loopy_Loo · Feb 1st 2009, 5:40pm

ooh my :(

what a pickle im in lol

chatting to my best friend about it atm so she is helping me , preparing me if i am , how to tell my parents *god help me*

etc

Kase · Feb 1st 2009, 5:44pm

If you don't mind, can I ask for your age? If you're young it'd be best to go for abortion or to give the child up for adoption.

But then again, you don't know if you're pregnant or not, so don't freak yourself out now. Go buy a test!

Loopy_Loo · Feb 1st 2009, 5:57pm

im 17 and my boyfriend is 18. so fairly young, iv always wanted to be a mum but i dont think i planned on being this young lol

its really worrying me so im going to sort it soon when i c my friend tommorow!

i am against abortion so thats not an option really , i work in child care so im in the best place to be pregnant.

if i said id put my child up for adoption when i had the child i simply couldnt part with it.

so if i am i would keep it against what everyone says. my boyfriend and i would deffinatly find it hard but we will get through it some how!

dandylion · Feb 1st 2009, 9:15pm

I think its great how strong you are if you are pregnant. It seems you have your mind made up and that you have a bf who will support you!!! Good luck anyway, fingers crossed your not pregnant.

Loopy_Loo · Feb 4th 2009, 10:10pm

dandylion wrote:

I think its great how strong you are if you are pregnant. It seems you have your mind made up and that you have a bf who will support you!!! Good luck anyway, fingers crossed your not pregnant.

aww thank you babe , yer i am so lucky i have such an amazing boyfriend who will support me , he is my rock , keeps me strong through everything , we have been through a hell of alot with me being ill alot etc so he is too good to be true tbh , lucky to have him and iv told him now that im worried i could be , he was shocked at first but he is happy because he will support me and i will support him what ever the outcome :)

Bella · Feb 5th 2009, 1:37am

My aunt had her period all the way through so you can't look at that, although in most cases it's how girls find out.
If I were you i'd just get a pregnancy test, or get to a gyno asap

shelb angs · Feb 5th 2009, 1:49am

17 and 18?
Yea i would say get an abortion. I think you're gonna screw life up.

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