The first thing you have to do is a take a pregnancy test. If you are pregnant than you need to weigh your options, as well as discuss it with your family and the father.

Nip out and buy a pregnancy test

Exactly. Then abort it.

~Maggot

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~Maggot

see a gynaec and take a pregnancy test...
do it asap!!

I think I'm pregnant
I've been seeing this lad who's two years older than me
It's been in secret as he has a gf
We got carried away and didnt use anything
And now I'm a week late
I dunno what 2 do
I have university this year

Take a test and then talk to him.

Personally it doesn't sound like you have the stable foundations needed to support a child - especially when his/her father is with another girl.

Before you think about anything else just take a test

If you find out that your pregnant make sure the father knows that he has a responsibility to take care of that child as well. If he doesn't want to be in a relationship with you then he at least needs to pay child support. If this messes up his relationship with his girlfriend then thats what he gets. He shouldn't have cheated on her in the first place.

Honestly you should never have messed around with the scumbag anyway. If he'll cheat on his girlfriend then he'll cheat on you as well. Hopefully he'll make a better father than a boyfriend. Thats for sure.

Take a pregnancy test, but make sure this guy knows whats going on. And use protection in the future.

I'd wait to see if you get your period, if not get a pregnancy test and see what happens; than I'd talk to the guy about it.

coulda got it done at a clinic, much easier.

why didn't you use protection?:confused::confused: Anyways, i think you should take the test, if your still unsure, go to the doctor

Hello Amber,

You said you took 3 pregnancy tests and 2 came back positive. Go to the doctor and talk to him about it, he can give you the best advice.
Talk to the potential father and your family. Even if it turns out to be a scare, talk to your partner and make sure he understands that next time the two of you need to be smarter about these things.

If you are pregnant weigh your options.
Firstly, you have a choice to continue with the pregnancy or not (abortion). If you choose to continue with the pregnancy, you then have the choice of parenting the child yourself or making an adoption plan for your baby.
You can learn more about your option here:

Having the child.

Adopting the child.

Abortion.

It is good that you are asking for advice and guidance, but ultimately the decision is for you and your partner to make, and I can't stress that enough.


Good luck,
Michael R.

P.S. Care Confidential is a great source for pregnant teenagers. I'd recommend you look around their site more in depth.

I'm going to tell you the same thing that I told Loopy Loo in her thread.

Were you told why a test came up positive? Also, did they do a urine test or a blood test? If it was a urine test and it came back negative, that doesn't mean you're not pregnant. Home pregnancy tests are a lot more sensitive than the urine tests that doctors give. It's incredibly rare to get a false positive(it only happens if the woman is going through menopause, recently lost a baby, or has ovarian cysts), whereas false negatives are quite common. A woman can be pregnant and test negative if she's too early in her cycle, tested at the wrong time of didn't(didn't use FMU) has lower amounts of the HCG than the test picks up, used a faulty test, or many other reasons.

The one thing I didn't include in that post as to the cause of a "false" positive, is chemical pregnancy, but that would still have meant you were pregnant, but had an incredibly early miscarriage, and unless you've already experienced bleeding, that's not the case.

Get a pregnancy test and go see your doctor. Have you taken the birth-control pill and the morning-after pill?