me and this girl i like were at her friends house on a couch watching a movie. her friend and her boyfriend were making out the entire time. she gave me alot of signs to get closer to her and im extremely sure she wanted to kiss me. but for some reason i couldnt bring myself to kiss her so alls we did was hug and cuddle all night. im scared i messed up my chances with her. she invited me to the movies today but i couldnt go cus i didnt want to be a dick and ditch my friends after we made plans a couple days before and she invited me spring of the moment. now im not gonna see her until school on monday or tuesday. i think i messed up my chances with her... any hope still in it for me or am i done and just gonna stay friends with her?
messed up...
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There is still plenty of hope. You might have messed up THAT chance but you did not mess up ALL of your chances.[SIGPIC][/SIGPIC]
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Well if you really like her, ask her out. Thats really one of the only way to get together. Theirs another chance right there.
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Nah, you've still got plenty of chances. Since you rejected her offer to go somewhere, it's best you clarify specifically what you had to do just so she doesn't misunderstand. Then you should take the initiative and invite her somewhere.
Don't fret about the party she's going to which her ex-bf is also attending. If she likes you, then she won't be looking at any other guys. For now, text her immediately and ask her to go someplace, then apologize for not being able to go with her before. This will let her know that you're still definitely interested.[CENTER][SIZE=4][/SIZE][SIZE=4]
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She invited you to the movies the next day after you "messed up" So I really wouldn't worry about it. And if you told her the reason why you couldn't go with her because you made prior plans with friends then she should completely understand.
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I don't think you messed up completely. There's still plenty of hope, you just messed up that one chance she gave you during the movie and the one to go see a movie with her.
But there will probably be more chances, if she doesn't give you one; make one.[CENTER][SIGPIC][/SIGPIC] [/CENTER]
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i already told her why i couldnt go with her... im just scared theres no hope because i wont see her for another 3 or 4 days. thats why i think i messed up my chances...
You could always make a new chance yourself...[CENTER][SIGPIC][/SIGPIC] [/CENTER]
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Honestly, nothing's going to happen if you sit at home and wallow in self-pity. If you missed your chance, there's always ways to make things happen for yourself if you ask her out instead, like I said above.
And even if you didn't miss your chance, if you just do nothing, your chance to go out with her will pass anyways because you're letting the opportunity slip through your fingers.
Chin up and go text her. Now.[CENTER][SIZE=4][/SIZE][SIZE=4]
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